I think the best gifts for guys are...

...maybe a gift card because a pair of cute boxers may get him into trouble, lol! But what works for me is lingerie, scented candles, perfume, etc.

xoxo
Caylee

a Santa costume and a fat suit, so be on the lookout.

I don't ask for anything and I don't give providers gifts aside my usual envelope. I also don't receive conventional gifts from providers although I have had "extras" given to me as a gift.

When all is said and done, it's still a business and typically the "vendor" is the one putting up gifts. That said, I think a nice gift is either a surprise "extra" or one time discounted price. However, with favorites and ATFs, gifts both directions would be reasonable as would no gifts.  So...I guess I'm firmly in the middle with no particular conviction.  To each their own. If it's right for you, then it's right!  Use good judgment.

Nothing

Non-Cooperation with Corporate Greed

I once bought an ATF a great little lingerie piece.  She wore it, I took it off her...we had a blast.  Every now and then she posts a picture in it...schwinggggg

Christmas or not, little things like that go a long way.  And on more occasions that I care to admit, a few of my long time friends/favorites have offered pretty steeply discounted sessions which amount to a very nice gift in and of itself.