Ok so this is a very sensitive topic and I just had my most awkward encounter as a provider because of it. I think I'm a fantastic provider because I sincerely enjoy what I do and connect with the people I come across. I have came a long way from when I first started where I would just go on appointments to fuck and leave, I had to understand that men don't just want somebody that's a nice fuck, but somebody whose company they enjoy being around overall and I try to be that.  
So today I had this guy come over and everything was fine but he popped pretty early, after we lie on the bed and are talking and I'm telling him about myself and my life and he continues to play with me then he asks about a rubber but I tell him I only offer  One pop an hour and he kinda tries to talk me into going again and that it's what everybody is doing but other providers that I know old or young don't offer multiple pops only really seen a few that has. And at this point I am kind of uncomfortable and in a weird situation, he then says if he had known that for my rate he wouldn't have done it and asked for a refund, which wasn't cool because I am very much worth every penny I ask for it's not my fault you finished so fast, but at this point I've agreed to let us go again but the mood has been killed. I feel like shit being in a situation like this so I start bawling my eyes out trying to get him going again and he's not into it and says it's not gonna work and left. I feel REALLLLLY bad especially because I never wanted somebody to spend time with me and not feel like it was time and money well spent. But I'm just wondering are ladies seriously offering two pops and am I out of touch? I doubt it's something I could ever really offer but I feel like I could not make it so professional all the time and use my discretion at time with certain people.

You have to run your business as you see fit but your TER profile list multiple pops allowed. He might have just assumed that was the case. Btw, your listed TER rate and P411 rate per hour also differ. Just a thought.

First, I'm sorry you experienced that.  But I can absolutely see how a gent could finish unexpectedly early (you have  exceptional skill for one so young).  

I don't understand the difference if the guy can go 45 minutes without a pop, or can pop twice in 30 minutes.  There's obviously going to be a break with the two or three timer compared to Mr Whiskey Dick. I would think the guy that can go twice would be a little better as there would be more foreplay.

I hate you went through that Mocha but to be honest at your price point, two pops is sorta expected.  "Technically" we are only paying for your time but one pop early and chit chat for another 45 mins or so isn't very realistic in my humble opinion.  

And most, if not all, ladies at or above a certain gift level do as well. Having said that, the gent should conduct himself using proper etiquette and not exceed the time he booked.

I absolutely agree, I do believe that if somebody comes under 20 minutes with not much done to get him there it is extremely fair to let him get more bang for his buck.

Multiples should always be available on the menu. It's sort of like this to me- you tell me you have top shelf scotch on the menu. I ask for a 18 year Balvenie and gulp it down because its soooooooo good and I haven't had a good scotch in a long long time. I realize I still have 45 mins at the bar and would like another round before I leave.

As a provider with a rate of 300+ per hour, I offer multiple pops if that's what the client wants.  I have some clients that want multiple pops and others that don't.  I don't think it's unreasonable for a client to have a second round if they popped 10-15 mins into the session and paid for a full hour.  

I didn't put that on my profile i think its from my reviews but im not sure why itd be on there never had a two pop issue until now really but it's been a great learning lesson and you all have made a lot of good points i never considered. So thank you all.

Equals one visit customer.

My sympathies are with him, not her. She has reviews that claim than one pop including her last one, her profile state multiple pops and her rate most certainly suggests multiple pops.  

I appreciate all the feedback because I am seeing things in a different perspective. When I first started out I was kinda tied up  with an "agency"that pressed the idea of one pop an hour and I don't wanna be talked into being taken advantage of and just kinda made it seemed as if clients are these scary people that the only way to address them is formally and professionally,  for your own safety, I'm very young in this and know I have a lot to learn which is why I reached out. and it's just a way I've been doing my work since but I honestly really thought to put myself in somebodies else's shoes. I have apologized and reached out to the guy to make it up to him. and will definitely start to use my discretion on the subject from hence Forth.

I can understand his disappointment if your reviews say multiple pops allowed. We use reviews to determine who would best fit our desires.

Hi Naomi,

Like I said fairly new to this and kinda just went off the little I knew from what I've been told which is kinda why I reached out to see how ppl felt about it. I will definitely start offering multiple pops to people that cum early during oral   definitely want people to feel like as if they've gotten their money and times worth.

I didnt mean to come across as critical of you. i was just saying what most hobbyists would expect. if i could go 2 rounds and knew she only offered one, id try to prolong release as long as possible. but its way more fun to be able to relax and let it go and not worry about what you are going to do for the remaining 55 minutes. knowing im going to see someone that week, i refrain from coming for a few days. thus the first one can be faster than wanted

Gambler, I agree with you - and since I said a very similar thing I will respond as well.  I said I was sorry she experienced that.  I didn't mean that she was right, only in that it happened altogether.  Much like when I accidentally hit my finger with a hammer - I'm sorry that it happened.  Lol.  

Naomi,

I always thought that it was standard for multiple pops for the 1 hour session if the gentleman could pull it off. I like to get the 1st pop out of the way quickly followed by foreplay , and if I am able to get back up again at my age I would like to know that the possibility to get another pop does exist.

For me now, once a king, always a king.
But once a knight is enough.

At my price point I allow 2 pops but then again that's never really discussed as I feel I connect very intimately with my clients. I've never had one ask me about that, rather things go organically and we both leave feeling satisfied with the outcome :]

Naomi--

Thank you! It's definitely something I'll change and offer from hence Fourth lol. From everybody's opinions it's definitely the wave haha

and that is VERY refreshing as you know how many young (and old) providers come on here not to actually get advice to improves themselves, but to validate their bad behavior.

Allowing as multiple pops in a session is a good policy, in my opinion. However, if it took "considerable work" and time to get the first " 40 or so minutes " be carful not to allow a 1hour to become a 1.5 stretch because your guest is "almost there", unless of course you want to. Most indys allow a few minutes overrun but that's usually reserved for cleanup and dressing. Most guests are respectful of time but there are those who try to stretch as absolutely as far as they can.

I agree with GAGambler.  I always research the lady and see if she allows multiple pops.  If she doesn't I move on.  Recently I left one of my ATF's because of the same issue.  In her case after I came within 20 minutes she will get up and start getting dress and not even giving me the full hour.  Just my 2 cents.

definitely puts her on my list of ladies to see

I think every client is VERY different. They all have expectations that are key to our success and to their happiness, which let's face it, go hand in hand. I'm always up for making sure that everyone is enjoying themselves. And at the same time I want to make sure that I am comfortable with what I am offering. If you're uncomfortable it shows and business tends to reflect that. Personally, I allow multiples, and I don't know many that DO NOT. However, if you are with me for 45 minutes and need to recover and then want to go again in a one hour window.. I'm going to tell you to book a longer session. I would say that if you do not want to offer that you should make that known on all of your advertising. No one wants to be deceived especially when they are paying their hard earned money. Mix ups certainly happen, but if I were you I would clear up any grey areas just to be sure. Another option could be for you to raise your minimum booking times. That way you are good with what you're offering and you and the client have plenty of time to recover.  

Yeah I learned my lesson about staying the whole hour. When I started the agency I started with made it seem like after the guy cums everything is done and honestly the guys that associated with them that's how things went. But they had me charging a shit load less so it was probably guys who just want a nut and they're happy but as I grow and broaden my horizons I see that men actually worth while want way more than a nut. They want a connection, personality, conversations. Things I had to learn down the road on my own from bad experiences or constructive criticism. And now I know a lot better from this.

Guy is paying for the time - if he can go 3 times in the hour, should be allowed

Absolutely.

Would you want a guy feeling that he deserved a discount / refund if he got 0 pops in an entire hour? My advice would be to not treat it like a pure business transaction. For the guy it's a fantasy and he's trying to enjoy that as much as possible in the time he has. Help him experience that fantasy for the time he has and he'll be back enough that it won't matter.  While I don't deal with many, the ones I do deal with are regulars - and having regulars is better and safer than trying to squeeze in as many as you can.

I totally agree with what electr0n's saying.  We're paying for time, not by piece.  

Back when I started hobbying in the U.S.  I would only do HH or QV sessions.  It wasn't necessarily by design, it was just market I suppose.  The first hour long session I got was an eye opener.  After we were done the first time and cleaned up, we talked for a bit and then she initiated the second round.  I suppose that set the tone e.g. hour session = 2 pops.  It wasn't until recently when I started to notice a shift in the market.  I drove up to D. C. (3 hrs) to see a provider that I had wanted to see for sometime, her rate was $400.  We got acquainted, did the do, and then she proceeded to get up and get dressed making up some excuse about running errands.  Needless to say I was a bit peeve but I just went on about my business and made my way back home.  Since then i have ran into that several times, even with providers charging as much as $500/hr.  To me that is just bad business.  Nowadays providers seem to think that a their presence alone is worth X amount of dollars and that the john should be happy with just one pop.  Take the following into consideration:

If a provider turns me on I will be ready to go again after a 10 minute rest between pops. I will start to get another erection. Many are surprised to see that happen with someone in there mid 50s. If a provider tells me she only does one pop per hour I won't see her again. It is nice to chit chat and bond. Excessively it comes off as a scheme to get a guy to purchase multiple hours imho.

Kinda already solved my problem but thanks for your opinion

Making political posts on the discussion boards is a great way to alienate half of your potential clients.

I don't care. At ALLLLLLLL. if anybody doesn't want to give me their money because of my political views I bet they never stopped to ever think if I even want it and the answer is no, and although I wasn't as enthusiastic reading it as I bet you were typing it thanks for sharing, in a public forum I respect all opinions.

But also I guess some people would see this and agree and think that I should also keep politics to myself and off this site and you're completely right. I apologize and it won't happen again *solider salute*

Cause I mean as strong headed as I might be this simply just isn't the place for it period. I understand. Just wish you'd address me privately and not seem to be scolding me like you're my father or something. I appreciate advice but don't do this. Cause lol. But I get what ur saying. Duly noted.

I saw nothing wrong with Barbie and her statement about the 44th President of these United States,  I stand with her and I agree with her. I think that it was mean spirited to attack her like she was attacked. I do not feel that it will reflect a drop off in her clientelle, I myself respect You more because of it.

I myself would love to have a session with a Trump supporter for obvious reasons. To Any Trump Supporting Providers in Hotlanta, please pm me, so as we can arrange a rendezvous.  

Very impressed with your maturity in taking constructive criticism.  As has already been said here many times, multiples is the standard practice for an hour, especially at your price point.

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There's a reason I charge what I charge, and MSOG is one of the reasons why I feel confident charging what I charge. A client is paying me for the HOUR, not for any single service rendered. I've met and known quite a few ladies in the business (I took a few years off, but have worked in the hobby for 10+ years) and have never known any of them to NOT allow it. I really think that sort of gets into offering a "menu" of services, which may be fine at a different pricing threshold, and maybe you can make it work for you, but I think, unless you are upfront about it all the time, you will find some gentlemen disappointed.  

If you are going to effectively stop the session 10 minutes early, you should discuss this with the customer and agree to have him pay less (1!6 of the time is about 15% less)

Your profile says multiple pops are available. It is the providers responsibility to contact TER Admin and correct errors on her profile.