We all keep list about who we would like to see.  I actually have three,  My GO TO list of favorite ladies that have proven excellent and work with my twisted schedule - the ones I always fit one into my plans when in atlanta.  MY SCHEDULING list which is the current grouping of ladies I really want to see and actively working into my budget/time for exploration.  And then my WISH LIST.  The one where the lady is so amazing in looks, reviews and price that I figure I can never actually see, but wow how I wish I could.
 
Recently I had a conversation with one of them.  She learned that she was on this list and wondered why I never bothered to contact her.  After explaining how come, she basically gave me a "DUH YOU SILLY MAN", response and wondered why I never asked if there were 'specials'.  It seems like my reply did not help my stupidity quotion in her eyes because I got another DUH response.  So I have now moved her from the WISH LIST (you could call it the UNATTAINABLE list) and will give her a high priority next time I am in Atlanta.  A big THANK YOU to the wonderful young lady that reached out to me and cured me of this wrong thinking at least in regard to her
 
Which leads me to this question over Sunday morning coffee:
 
Ladies (and agencies), how do you feel about being on someones WISH LIST or BUCKET LIST?  The one where he would love to schedule time with you but for whatever reason (usually money) doesn't.  Do you even want to know that member xyz thinks you desirable but unattainable?
 
Love to read your thoughts.

The same thing just happened to me.  I also have an UNATTAINABLE list - and I recently was in contact with my #1 UNATTAINABLE.  The special word came up, and I hope to book her this week.  

Maybe we ARE just silly men then?

Good question? I am very surprised by the young ladies reply. I have always been under the impression that typically ladies don't want to be bothered by guys looking for deals, discounts or specials.

I have been under the impression that if a lady sets her fees at an un-attainable level for the average hobbyist, it was because she only wanted to see the upper echelon. I don't get into the fees discussion with ladies. I feel it is disrespectful to negotiate so I just don't contact them. I guess I may be losing a lot of opportunities if what your young lady indicates is wide spread. I know what my normal budgetary limit is and I don't break it often although I have for certain ladies.

Willy

I really love to hear that someone has been having fantasies about being with me! Actually, it really turns me on!
You know me... I thrive on the fantasy and the passion that builds.

Dare I say I have quite the list of ladies I'd love to experience some time with as well!  

On the other hand I have some hobbyists who have made it on my little list of guys I find truly interesting from their board posts or reviews.

Faith you are one of the ladies I dream about getting on my massage table. The idea of your exquisite body at my disposal....DAMN!

There are a couple others on my "out of reach" list but who knows, maybe one day!

I definitely have lists like this too. Oddly enough, there is a girl that has been on my Wish List and I think I may be close to having one of my wishes come true.
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Re: Wishing I knew, and wishing I had more time

Taylor what a great post. I never do reviews and only seldom hobby but our stars did align about 6 years or so ago as well and I can honestly say that my comfort level with you was immediate and the encounter truly had me electrified. A confluence of personal obligations have had me consumed but it was SO fun and with those obligations having changed, I look forward to "Aligning' again in the near term. Notwithstanding the context of this thread, I always find your contributions to the board to be  interesting and downright entertaining. Good for the aforementioned gentleman for hanging in there! I look forward to visiting again soon and please post more often you sexy thing you!

Next time we need someplace a little less reserved! You and I need to be able to "kick back" and have a good laugh without prying ears! LOL!! It was amazing to finally meet the legend and find out she is really just the girl next door grown-up! What a pleasure you are! But as far as "shy and reserved", who are you trying to fool! LMAO!!

Thanks Taylor!

Willy

Every time I get on this site I feel like my wish list grows longer and longer.

makes it fun.

Life is not a series of planned events.

Life is a series of spontaneous adventures!!

I really do agree with the point of view, but unfortunately many of the ladies, and especially their schedules, do not.  I am one of the worst schedule planners in the hobby and bless with several willing to accept last minute late calls.  But there are those that I have desires to meet and work the process of meeting them.  Good luck finding your princess hitch hiking while driving your chevy van for a moonlight dancing session.  

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With a few exceptions I've met most of the ladies on my bucket list. It's my wish to see them more often and for more than a few hours. I'd like nothing more than a three or four day getaway to a beautiful beach with a beautiful lady, but that would blow my hobby budget for an entire year!