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DjJayATL 1 Reviews 1536 reads
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So let me start by saying that I am fairly inexperienced in the "hobby".  I have had a couple good times but mostly bad in my few encounters.  As I find myself looking again I thought I would ask if my expectations were too high?  

I know that with everyone there needs to be some chemistry (both ways) and ymmv but what do you do when it just feels wrong?  Im sorry but it kinda kills it for me when I just feel like it's a hurry up kinda situation and there is 0 connection.  I tried to meet someone recently and it felt wrong from the call to get the room number.  I probably should have left but did not want to seem like a jerk for not showing.  Once I was in her room it just didn't feel welcome.  

So let me know ladies, are nervous guys a huge turn off?  Is kissing out of the question? What can I do to make things better and more like the fantasy?

Thanks

Jay

jimconsul2003729 reads

Sounds like to me you need to do a little more research as you appear to be selecting the wrong ladies. There are plenty of great providers in the Atlanta area. I don't know how you select the ladies you see, but maybe that is where your changes should start. Make your expectations clear when the appointment is made. There will always be times when things don't click between 2 people. The only advice when that happens is don't go back for a repeat performance.

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chocolatefantasygirl1575 reads

Sorry to hear  about your experiences.Maybe you should pick well - reviewed ladies that  will guarantee a great time.like myself.
However always be yourself and be a gentleman.If you dont feel comfortable express your feelings ..always go with your heart.

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So let me start by saying that I am fairly inexperienced in the "hobby".  I have had a couple good times but mostly bad in my few encounters.  As I find myself looking again I thought I would ask if my expectations were too high?  

I know that with everyone there needs to be some chemistry (both ways) and ymmv but what do you do when it just feels wrong?  Im sorry but it kinda kills it for me when I just feel like it's a hurry up kinda situation and there is 0 connection.  I tried to meet someone recently and it felt wrong from the call to get the room number.  I probably should have left but did not want to seem like a jerk for not showing.  Once I was in her room it just didn't feel welcome.  

So let me know ladies, are nervous guys a huge turn off?  Is kissing out of the question? What can I do to make things better and more like the fantasy?

Thanks

Jay

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somebodyelse_32689 reads

I've been fortunate to have had nearly all great experiences, and TER detailed reviews have been a big help.  So making sure to keep VIP status, and reading mult. reviews on the ladies, including always reading the lowest published scores to see what it says (what made that visit less than great for the gent who submitted it?) as well as the best reviews.  Find if the lady posts on the discussion board in a way that shows anything about her personality.  Maybe contact her directly via PM with a comment or follow up.  Maybe back channel other hobbyists whom you notice have posted reviews about multiple women on your radar, since that might be a good sign that someone has similar tastes in what he is looking for.  Hope your experiences get better.

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escape1535483 reads


Logan is correct.  You have to read and read into the reviews. There is a lot more in there, if you read carefully.

One more tip that may sound crazy.  But, I have found that there are certain horiscope signs that I am compatible with.  Lots of people don't seem to believe but it works.

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DjJayATL556 reads

Thanks for the advice.  Can anyone recommend a good choice for someone like me?  If I could pick the perfect look for me at the moment she would be brunette, long hair, c cup or better, impeccable taste, nice safe incall and a gfe/pse experience.  Would love I'd she wod chat a bit via email to get a better feel for her personality.

I'm not looking to waste anyone's time, nor am I looking for a cheap thrill reading dirty emails.

Posted By: DjJayATL
So let me start by saying that I am fairly inexperienced in the "hobby".  I have had a couple good times but mostly bad in my few encounters.  As I find myself looking again I thought I would ask if my expectations were too high?  

I know that with everyone there needs to be some chemistry (both ways) and ymmv but what do you do when it just feels wrong?  Im sorry but it kinda kills it for me when I just feel like it's a hurry up kinda situation and there is 0 connection.  I tried to meet someone recently and it felt wrong from the call to get the room number.  I probably should have left but did not want to seem like a jerk for not showing.  Once I was in her room it just didn't feel welcome.  

So let me know ladies, are nervous guys a huge turn off?  Is kissing out of the question? What can I do to make things better and more like the fantasy?

Thanks

Jay

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8over1197 reads

The sweetest girl I  know is Sky and her phone number is 504-496-4071. Google they phone number and you can find her ad with pictures

Posted By: DjJayATL
Thanks for the advice.  Can anyone recommend a good choice for someone like me?  If I could pick the perfect look for me at the moment she would be brunette, long hair, c cup or better, impeccable taste, nice safe incall and a gfe/pse experience.  Would love I'd she wod chat a bit via email to get a better feel for her personality.

I'm not looking to waste anyone's time, nor am I looking for a cheap thrill reading dirty emails.
Posted By: DjJayATL
So let me start by saying that I am fairly inexperienced in the "hobby".  I have had a couple good times but mostly bad in my few encounters.  As I find myself looking again I thought I would ask if my expectations were too high?  

I know that with everyone there needs to be some chemistry (both ways) and ymmv but what do you do when it just feels wrong?  Im sorry but it kinda kills it for me when I just feel like it's a hurry up kinda situation and there is 0 connection.  I tried to meet someone recently and it felt wrong from the call to get the room number.  I probably should have left but did not want to seem like a jerk for not showing.  Once I was in her room it just didn't feel welcome.  

So let me know ladies, are nervous guys a huge turn off?  Is kissing out of the question? What can I do to make things better and more like the fantasy?

Thanks

Jay

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liquidsunshine494 reads

Sounds like Heather is what you may be looking for. I haven't seen her yet, but she if on my top to do list. She's email contact only. All of the reviews that I have read have been very good.

Http://m.cityvibe.com/index.php?control=posts-mobile&action=view&container=main&post=84733

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DjJayATL932 reads

It looks like some of you have sent messages, I just joined and am not VIP yet so I cannot read them.  If you repond to the post I would appreciate it.


Thanks

Jay

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little phil830 reads

If you could read the reviews, you would pick different ladies

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somebodyelse_32905 reads

Get VIP for goodness sake.  Stick a crowbar into your wallet and get the plastic out, the one where the bill doesn't go to your SO, that she won't check, and buy a 30 or 90 day membership.  Sheesh, exactly, the lack of VIP does explain a lot.  Which also answers why when you were given advice you then did it again, asked others who don't know you from a hole in the wall to make recommendations based on a handful of superficial characteristics, instead of doing your own homework.  How many bad experiences does it take, each of which costing many times the price of a VIP membership, before you realize the value of the VIP?

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liquidsunshine498 reads

Dude, besides Paying for VIP, if you leave enough reviews you get VIP status that way too. And that way we all see who you have had bad experiences with, and we don't make the same mistakes. Also I would suggest doing more homework, especially if you are searching back page. I've also noticed that there have been numerous spam ads on cityvibe as well. Always cross reference phone numbers here also. VIP membership has awesome advantages!

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DjJayATL531 reads

I really appreciate all the advice.  I will post a couple reviews from my recent attempts which actually were not the worst.  I wish I would have known or I would have posted the not so great from months ago.

Once again, thanks everyone for helping a new guy out.

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