An interesting survey, wonder waht the results are going to be. Some thoughts on self esteem though:

One cannot create self esteem using some crutch

Self esteem is usually destryed by doing some thing one thinks is wrong or doesn't beleive in. Of course puritanical society and upbringing has large part to play. In puritanical terms, sex in any form is bad and sinful. Why? Becuse it is a pleasurable and loving experience between two adults. How does one get self esteem?

Do what you belive is right (as long as what you do and want to do doesn't hurt anyone else, does it matter)

Be happy and treat others politely and with respect.

Don't judge anyone or anything (others are entitled to their opinions)

Be helpful whenever you can.


Not a psychologist by any means but some thoughts I wanted to share.

May incorrect for the discussion board, if so applogize.

Would like to what all you think.

Tippu