Okay, there's this lady who posts from time-to-time that she's "searching for a few good men" .. "eager to find more brave and willing participants" for her "#1 requested fetish STRAPP ON/DILDO experience" ...

Are there guys out there that take her up on this offer? (I think I saw only one reviewer that mentioned it.) Do guys really enjoy that kind of interaction? (Or, maybe I should ask, do they admit to it?) Is there a stigma associated with it?

I know I've read (more often than the strap-on was mentioned) that a few guys like some anal play, whether it be with a finger or a tongue. That seems to be more commonly admitted. But, to have a lady (a hot, sexy lady), plunging a much larger object "where the sun don't shine", well, is that like a bit "too kinky"? (I know - I've seen worse things mentioned myself ...)

Any comments?
(Kind of betting this will be an "often-read, but few replies" type of post ...)

To be honest, there is nothing about a Strap-On that turns me on.  The lady that offers this is very foxy, but Strap-On(s) do nothing for me!



Joey

I have several "straight men" who truly enjoy me to use a strap-on.....to quote one gentleman  "I am in control all day, I want you to take control of me completely".....I find that anal play really turns men on!!  BUT, it is not for everyone so start slowly...ie:  fingers, butt plugs....smaller vibraters....

No thank you,
A little anal play can be fun but no thanks to penetration.
Not into speaking Greek either.

I couldnt deal with doing this at all.. another thing i dont know if i could even enjoy being with a man that would want this done.. i have a problem with being with a man that can look at another and get a woody .. lol

I have seen it done to guys and have done it to myself to guys. It is a dominant act. The subs usually like it up there a$$. Southern men have not made much comment about wanting such. Not even the ones that would fit a sub profile. The sub profile for men tend to be overly busy and make critical decisions throughout the day. They want someone else to control them for a while. Most likely when they masturbate they think of someone forcing them to go into their sweet little a$$.

From my personal experience, I prefer to have it in my a$$ as it feels good that way.

A man is supposed to have a spot (forgot the letter for it) up inside of his a$$. If massaged properly, he may come with that alone. I have heard that sometimes a trip to a urologist (that has to check the a$$ out) has made guys ejaculate. This is from feeling around I suppose to make sure everything feels normal up in there. All by accident another words and not intentionally.

From your demeanor (AtlantaMike), your a$$ seemed to be an exit only type. Interesting you wrote this post I thought.

Jolie

How have you been?  hope you arefeeling better.  If there is anything Ican do let me know.  Hope all is well, hit me up and maybe I can take you to dinner(no strings, just as friends)

Joe

I have had two strap-on experiences in my hobbying career and have enjoyed them very much.  I really like the anal stimulation.  And, no, I'm not the submissive type either.  I do it from time to time because I really like the feeling.  The woman has to be interested in doing it, also.  The particular provider that I've had this experience with really enjoyed putting on the strap-on and giving it to me.  She had as much fun as I did.

So that's all there is to it for me.  It's just another form of fun and play.  Don't make it mean anything more than just that.

jolie hi i seen y amany times i willl wear my corrections officer uniform an u can strap 1 on me

I like a little anal play not sure though a strap on would feel good.  A finger or tongue is on thing but always in to trying something once.

Actually it is quite common lately. I can personally attest to that. I believe the lady who uses that tag line can say the same. My clients enjoy it very much, so much that I've had guys bring me bigger toys to use as mine apparently have been to small. I have also traveled out of state for the sole purpose of doing strap on sessions. So yes, some men REALLY do enjoy a good strap every now and then. Sincerely~Dominique~ don't knock it till ya try it.

Absolutely! I happen to like it quite a bit. And I'm not into S&M or D&S, and I'm not gay nor do men turn me on.

However, when you get a woman with a strap-on who is really, really into plugging you it's a beautiful thing! Some ladies enjoy it immensely as well. They get the control/power rush for a change.

I would see a provider just for that even. (hint hint)

Personally, I have no interest.  I think that the "supposive" straight men who like it are really gay but don't know it. I am not bashing gay men, I just don't believe that a true straight guy can get into it.  Also along similar terms, I do not think that a true straight guy would agree to see a TS.

Hello All. As most of you know, I'm a provider who offers strap on sessions on a daily basis. I can honestly say that there are SEVERAL men who very much enjoy this type of fetish. Now that I'm offering strap on sessions, I cater mostly to men wanting this type of service. There are also men who travel from out of town to see me wanting to get some of my good Di*K. I still offer massage as well as "GFE", but on an average I may do 4 GFE's  and 8 to 10 strap on sessions a week. THIS IS A VERY POPULAR item on my menu. Some men are embarrased to let others know that they are coming in for this type of service. This is the reason for the decline in reviews I receive(LOL, but so true). Most of my clients requesting strap on play are straight men who are very elite and professional. I enjoy doing strap on sessions and my "BOYS" can see it during our time together. My patient and relaxed attitude puts them at ease and they become more comfortable knowing that I'm mentally and physically getting into the session. These are not simple sessions. They are quite complex and take a lot of endurance,understanding and excellent skill on my part. I don't judge them, neither do I judge those of you who are married and seeing providers. I offer an escape to men wanting to feel special and appreciated. Whatever pleasure it takes to get them to that plateau, I'm down with it as long as it's something that I feel comfortable with doing. Simply put,"Different Strokes for different folks." I will never reveal the names of my strap on clients to anyone even though I've been asked on several occassions to do so. I don't discuss any of my clients with other providers or clients except during the provider reference check process.

All of this talk about the strap on experience is exciting,so for those of you wanting to experience this TABU fetish, feel free to call or email me for a discounted rate.... Yours Truly, "LUNDON STRAPP"! 678) 612-8331

Jolie,, great to see you back on the boards!!!  Missed ya

Your argument is a total homophobic response...

I'm not gay, nor would I ever see a TS.

Don't knock it until you've tried it.

Too each his own.

Thanks for the commments, y'all ...

It seems it may be more common than it appears, and also that I was right about the stigma attached to it.

I have only had a little experience with anal play (rimming and fingers) from others, and they were indeed ladies. THIS GUY has absolutely NO interest AT ALL in any kind of "playtime" with another guy!! Period. So, don't think that this interest necessarily brings with it an interest in "other men". VERY NOT SO.

And, further, I don't really fit the sub type; not feeling a yen to be dominated, abused, humiliated, etc. I more am into pleasing and being pleased.

That said, the anal play was enjoyable. A well-known massage provider introduced me to it, and it added quite a bit to that time with her. So, am I curious and interested? Yes, a little. I would echo one comment that I am open to trying different things; at least once; (maybe never again).

I got replies from the lady whose ad initiated the discussion, and also from a well-known greek provider (welcome back!).

Interesting discussion.

If there is a way to close this out ...

If you're a guy who really enjoys a set of warm lips wrapped around you and those soft hands caressing you ...

Or a gal who loves the tongue gently touching and probing ... or a vibrator probing and tickling in such a nice way ... or a hard one up the rear ...

Well, the "gay crowd" does not have a monopoly on those feelings, experiences, and methods; and, I don't think of you as gay or bi if you like them also.

First to say this kind of unimhibited , adventuouse kind of man would turn you off. Shame on you,I promise you have already seen him or them, as there are manny in the south and atlanta.
This does not mean that all my friends request such,most are a bit more into the vanilla side of my sport,lol {whipcream anyone!} : )~


Some of my friends have seen a few of my favorite toys I travel with. And express a great deal of interest. Most know or can figure out real quick I am just game enough to lead them into new situations. You plant the seed Ill make it grow,lol I dont judge the level of kink,mine or thiers. Becuasae kink is just kink and expressed in a honest,open forum can only lead to lots of fun. I could compare this to many fantasy's,but I am affraid the one other very cont-l that comes to mind would be missunderstood or misconstrude on my part. Maybe because I amin the hobby.

I am in the hobby as a hobby for myself as well, I have mentioned this to a few before.I am realy very flattered that my friends can talk /inquire about new things and share thier fantasies with me.ITS a HUGE TURN ON! A bit like a welcome into thier world. Having lived out most of my fantsies,I enjoy the trips into unknown worlds congured up by the minds of my friends both new and old. How gracious of them to invite me personaly to share. Even a regular fantasy lived out once a week is a wonderful thing for many reasons. Very cool in my book!
There arent many things I dont offer on a percase basis,if the conditions are right,and no thats not a reference to $$ flow,lol

anyway,my point here is:
1- you naver know who you diminish when opemly declaring such things on the boards as negative.Just because you dont offer a service or your friend doesnt ask "YOU " for it doesnt mean its not handled elsewhere,lmao
2- dont knock it till you are well schooled and tried it.


ok, I've had my say .
much love mellissa

We need to hook up when you get back to Atlanta. I want to check out your toy collection...

You  PREFER  it that way?? I never would have known!  LOL!!

Actually, (since you mentioned it) the urologist uses his finger in this method to "force" a semen sample. It's really not a good feeling; a bit uncomfortable as he presses somewhere and causes a dribble to occur.

And, sweet Jolie, I guess that you didn't learn everything about me. (I almost thought we had discussed it for that double I had planned that fell into pure chaos ...)

Thanks for adding your "flavor" to this discussion, as it was your many posts "Seeking a few good men ..." that led me to start this discussion.