Did you go through a 6- or 12-step program to wean yourself off vibrators LOL?

lol

Happy to be a part of your rehabilitation!

Yes! Your willpower is an inspiration! eom

Yes! Your perseverance is an inspiration!

I was sure you will do it. How long is the program?

My girlfriend sometimes gets so sensitive with oral stimulation that I have to stop giving her oral after a hour or so.

At times she just does not have a major orgasam but has many mini o's and wanting the big one so bad she does not succeed, or shall I say I do not succeed. But then I think this happens when she has too many straight Gran Marnier drinks before retiring to the bedroom. Is this common???

At times she says it is my fault because sometimes I start going too fast when she gets excited and I just get wrapped up into the moment and do not realize that I have increased the speed.

Hope this is not considered hijacking the thread as it is also about "desensitized".

Well it seems as if you are bringing yourself down several notches. The ability to have an orgasm is a part of knowing your body and just like other young women you seem to not be there yet. If you made love to enough men instead of providing you might have learned by now how to achieve what you now think is blunted. I know you are mostly bisexual so your experiences with men in real relationships are limited at best. All I can say is good luck to you, you are putting way to much info on this board. You should be in the lab trying to figure this out on your own.