Bored when I really should be catching up on my studies, I got to thinking about the hobby and the many things that I have learned thus far.

1. Guys like women who are genuine and honest in their delivery.  Whether they are giving the guy bad news or good news—properly and respectfully delivered a man always appreciates this quality as it lets him know where the line in the sand is.

2. You don’t have to be the hottest chick on the block to be a successful provider—you have to be smart, well spoken, sexy and fun.  Guys dig these things in chicks and an average A cup with these qualities will win out over Ms. Bitchy and hot DD every time.

3. There is really room for everyone! I hear the market is ‘saturated’ all the time and this is not true.  I have learned that you get what you put out and if your chi is flowing negatively then the phone doesn’t ring.

4.  It takes about 10-15 views before a guy who has never seen you before will finally call. I used to be in corporate sales…was true then and is true now.   Just make sure every time he looks you are portraying yourself in the best possible light each time and when he calls your attitude matches your online protrayal.

5.  Screening is vital but don’t go overboard.  Be tasteful, tactful and discreet.  

6.  Guys appreciate the surprise gift too! Pay attention especially to those who enjoy dating you and treat them to special items.  A cigar, nice bottle of their favorite drink or even a gift card shows that you appreciate them just as much as they appreciate you!

Well, I am almost ½ way through my goal and I am sure that I still have alot more to learn! Here’s to you guys and dolls of Atlanta!

Forever La Zorra,

Alexandria Fox

1. Amen.  Providers that believe their appearance can overcome poor performance and a bad attitude are short-sighted and very delusional.  The fact is that poor performance/attitude can make a "hot" Provider ugly in a hurry!
2. Amen!  The hottest chicks are rarely the best Providers - see number 1!  Performance, attitude, and intelligence are lasting and more desirable attributes.  My SO is "hotter" than any Provider I've seen, but performance... not so much....
3. Common sense - I shake my head every time I see a new Provider try to break into this profession/market and make simple start-up business mistakes.  Unnecessarily invasive screening; pricing their services as if they were an established entity; not offering incall; etc.  Just dumb mistakes, and then they cry the market is 'saturated', when in reality it is their lack of business or common sense that is keeping their dance card from being full.
4. This is so true, and all the ladies that don't return emails and texts will not get those "views" like a lady that understands the importance of good customer service and responsiveness.
5. Very important.  Ladies that aren't flexible in this regard lose business.  Everyone, Provider and Hobbyist alike, deserve the right to feel safe and feel like their activities will remain confidential.  Providers that understand there are a multitude of ways to achieve this objective will thrive, whereas Providers that have the "my way or the highway" mentality, will miss opportunities.
6. Yes!  Rarely happens, but is nice when it does.  

Honesty...although it can be a real bitch sometimes, please just tell it like it is. As you say Alex, if possible, maintain a little tact but by all means, "Give it to me straight, doc".

Lessons well learned, and lessons well lived!  You are a diamond among other diamonds, shining with a brighter luster.  I was about to say "don't change", but I am confident that you will change and grow and evolve, everyday getting better.  You are my queen!

Wow, thanks for the thorough reply!  I didn't really think that guys felt strongly about the things I listed.

AF

Atlanta has quite a few diamonds and thank you for considering me among them. Kisses my sweet!

AF

Remember the School House Rock that came on with our Saturday morning cartoons in the 80's and 90's?... That's a good place to start.

Hee, hee!

You are just tooooo cute!! LOL!

I actually have a series of posts on my blog and to my new friend Nia Marie that are for ladies just getting started who want to make the best possible impression from the start.

G, you have given me something to think about!

AF

Alex - Excellent post.  Here are my thoughts on you posts IN CAPS.

I have had the pleasure of meeting this young lady several times. She is fantastic. Very well spoken, extremely intelligent and personable. You could have a conversation with her for hours and never be bored. If she reads this here is what I have to say to her : My dear, with that brain of yours, you will be very successful. There is no way you can fail. Luv ya !
JC

Thank you! Much success and well wishes to you also