I have a question for the community on what I should do about an appointment I recently had.

I setup a 2 hour appointment to see a Top provider in Atlanta.

The appointment had started late due to some communication issues between the scheduler and the provider.  At the appointment the provider said she needed to leave at the same time still, which reduced the 2 hour appointment to 1 hour.  The provider gave me her number and said give me a call tomorrow so that we could meet to finish the session.  

Over the next week, we had multiple times where a time was committed to and I moved or cancelled business meetings to see her only to either not hear from her close to that time or on some occasions go to the incall location only to not be able to get in touch with her at that time and have to return home disappointed.  Then later in the day she would say sorry I had a problem, lets do this time tomorrow, where I would confirm quickly then the next day repeat trying to get in touch with her close to the time and not hear from her.  While this was going on, off promising to be available and then changing her availability I have also seen some new posts saying she was available, which is rubbing in my feeling of being screwed over.

Now I totally understand people have problems, all I ask is to keep me informed.  If I had been provided the two hours the day off the appointment I would have given a good review and still would if she would fullfill on her promise to finish the session.  But at this point I have made multiple attempts to complete the session and at this point feeling as though I was ripped off which would be a very bad review.  The performance doing what she does is good, but this whole experience has left me annoyed.  If I am able to complete the session I would go back, but at this point I dont want to risk being screwed over again.  

Now, my question.  Should I cut the cord consider this a loss and write the review as is or should I continue to attempt to complete the session and how do you recommend I do this?

Also if I was to cut the cord and write the review as is, how should I rate the session?  For the half I got, I had a good time, but the half I missed has led to a nightmare of a week missing parts of my day at work to try and meet up with the provider.

Write it off bud. I had this happen once and I fell for it too. I'd definitely leave a negative feedback.

Only pay for what you get.  You should of just paid for the 1hr and told her I will pay you for the next hour when we meet again.  You are getting the run around.  Give it one more shot at seeing her again to collect on your owed hour.  Than if she flakes,  move on.  Go back and read all of the hoops she has already made you go through to see her for that one hour.

Someone talked about a standard thread every week for these issues but it never happened.  Might be too unfriendly for current board.  But the hammer her on board should be last resort when you feel it is no longer a scheduling difficult issue to become bs gaming.

You must post the review, no reason not too.  Up to provider if this is end of story.  I once posted similar review, lady came back with a make up session to end all sessions, I posted new review and it replaced the "bad" one and fairly allowed the community to know

You had a one hour session that you stated was good but you had scheduled 2 hours. Did you pay for 2 hours. If so then indeed you have been ripped off. If you paid for one hour and you got one hour then write the review of her based on the one hour but in the review explain the mix up between scheduler and provider.

In my opinion, if the provider was sincere in wanting to complete the 2nd hour, she would have made time to do so in the "next week" that you state you set up more appointments.

The piece about rescheduling and having her cancel last minute also needs to go in the review. Now, in my opinion, if you re-worked your schedule several times to try to accomodate someone and they kept cancelling, your little head was kicking your big heads ass. There are just way too many great ladies in Atlanta to allow that.

Never let a provider jerk you around. If I re-work my plans and a provider stands me up. I will never see her and I will make sure that others know of how discourteous she is. I am the customer. I am supposed to get treated well. At what I am currently paying for their "time" I deserve to get treated with respect. My time is just as valuable as their time is, even if all I am gonna do is sleep. I don't care if someone is 10/10 across her reviews, it does not give her a pass on respect.

This is about respect. If you are not being respected you are getting screwed on levels you don't even recognize.

Now the above opinions are all based on the assumption that all of your facts are true. Using an alias doesn't lend itself to being taken seriously.

Just my .02,

Willy

Write the review and tell us who this girl is.

...is if you were properly lubed before you took it...  or did you at least get a reach around?  Because from what you are telling us, you got fucked.

Now I am sure someone will be offended and this post will end up trashed.  Screw it...

Seriously, why would you pay 2 hours when you knew full well you were only getting 1 during that first meeting?  That was your mistake and one that I certainly would not even consider making.  On top of that, after the first no-show, you should either be demanding the money back or raising as much hell as possible.  You owe it to yourself to write an honest review.  She owes you either a session or the dough.

I can not believe you are being this "nice."  You certainly were not treated with any form of respect.

With all that said, we are only hearing your side of the story.  Could the plot possibly thicken?  

Nothing to see here...

To answer your first question should you cut the cord and consider this a loss well that depends, how much of your time can you stand to waste? If you're able to miss a few more days of work pursuing the 1 hour of missed time, i say go for it.  Answering your second question seems easy considering you were ripped off, you had a 2 hour appointment yet you only received 1 hour.  Rate the session as a rip off plain and simple.  

I agree with Meena... just write a honest review. In the end this saves us from going thru the same BS as  yourself. If you choose not to write a honest review i would certainly understand, an angry working girl with your personal information maybe something you don't want.

I think you do this as a slam against women.  I don't appreciate it.  You are always so negative.

Thanks...just curious....

I would imagine he paid for the 2 hrs, since it is usually customary to 'pay first', then play, and there was no mention of a refund for the 2nd hour, so I would imagine the lady in question, who you should definitely mention here, lest someone else have this happen, has decided to let him run around in circles and eventually hope he forgets it and writes it off; while she has clearly cheated someone out of $ and feels no real recourse to settle up.
 So, drop a note telling the board who it is, then write the review, and be sure to select the option of total ripoff, as that is clearly what has happened to you.  WEEKS spent, rescheduling WORK without a resolution, and you're having trouble with this????????  Do your duty and let the board know the identity of the lady and write the appropriate review reflecting the 'Whole' incident.

It's pure BS and sounds like she's counting your extra money as being in the bag and making other appointments.  I think these things happen more frequently than we realize because we're reluctant to call out these people.  I'm guilty of letting too many of these events slide without warning others. That's the reason for my advice. This kind of behavior is wrong whether its hobbyist or provider.  I suspect the conscientious providers dislike this behavior as much as hobbyists do.

Let the board know who she is and write the review.  It appears you have given her enough opportunity to make it up to you. If and when she does come around be sure to give us an update.  Everyone has days or weeks when shit happens.  If she has a history of this kind of thing it helps to keep us informed.

You can post all you want and as a matter of fact many have posted about same or similar issues 1000’s of times and the practice continues.

If you are venting it is OK. The truth is since TER rules prohibit names, it doesn’t do any good. Without names, nothing can be done and the practice is encouraged and shall continue. So, stick with known and reputed one’s!

Many hobbyists use their TER handle and many providers know their handles in turn letting the provider know who wrote the honest review (crappy from providers view). Most providers retaliate and men want to avoid it.

Since alias reviews are allowed, suppose one can use an alias. May some don’t know they can use an alias.

Based on the details of the story, it appears to bear several of her distinctive standard hallmarks.

But as I stated I will definitely *not* mention her name.

But the original poster should mention it.

I only hope he did not make his original post simply as a desparate last attempt to flush her out into the open for that final hour to "finish" their time together.

Do you prefer the more clinical and professional terminology "prostitute"? It is what it is.

I am a girl and i work

See no problem with the term.

she ripped you off , so you need to review her accordingly --- especially since you have tried repeatedly to reschedule with her to only get the cold shoulder in return. Review her before its too late and the negative experience is fresh in your mind. Also , it's a moral imperative for you to publicly call her out.

The same thing happened to me 2 years ago ; unfortunately , too much time has passed for me to write a review.....

The lady is too chicken shit to step forward FF

This may get blocked for possible violation of some unwritten code of conduct but I feel compelled to respond to the wimpy post, or my head might just explode.  It never ceases to amaze me to read postings from seemingly grown men who are so childish and immature and spineless that I am left wondering how they survive in this world.  For this person to allow himself to run around chasing his own tail as his story describes is sad;  to whimper for help for this non-problem that is at least in part self-induced is just silly.  Friend, there is no right or wrong answer to whatever it is you seem to be in a quandary about.  Write a review or not, nobody really cares.  If you do write a review, be honest and complete.  Rate it as you feel.  If this is an anomaly for this provider then others will recognize it as such.  Or if you want to keep chasing you own tail then do so, but I sure wouldn't tell everybody about it.  If you feel she is wasting your time and money, then make up your own mind and move on.  There are plenty of wonderful women in Atlanta that won't waste your time.  But for God's sake be a man and just make up your OWN mind.  It is sad to read these types of posts.  I apologize for my little rant.  I am going to wrap my head in duct tape now before my head explodes.

Re: I am a girl and i work

That is because you are intelligent and insightful.