What a bad day. Text my 2 favorite gals to see if they happen to be available. If not, no big deal, I realize it's sort of last minute. Never heard from 1, even though yesterday she said she'd be available today. Again, not a big deal, but at least a response back saying she couldn't meet would have been nice.

Heard back from the other lady, prob my fav, and she was available! I ask her about a time, and we agree, although it takes her a while to reply each time (texting). Found out she was having phone issues, so we switch to email. She asks to push it back 30 min; I agree, even though this likely means I'll be stuck in traffic, but I specifically ask her to let me know ahead of time if her plans change at all (because the last time we met, I was waiting in the parking lot 20 min as she was running late....seen her a few times before that, never an issue). So I call, and text on my way over there...no reply, maybe she's getting ready. Get over there, a few minutes late cuz of traffic, call and still no reply. I wait. I email. Still no reply. A few more calls/texts/emails, and after 30 min and no reply I just have to leave. Still haven't heard from her.

She's got great reviews, and I've seen her a few times (prob more than any 1 lady). She's a great provider and great person, so I won't call her out publicly, but I'm pissed. First a late appt, then  a no call/no show. I hope nothing bad happened to her, or perhaps her phone and computer completely died. Either one would be completely understandable, and even if she lied and said that happened I'd have to believe her. But it's just very strange not to hear back at all, I'm partly concerned, and partly feeling like a fool who would keep going back. There are plenty of other great providers I've seen here who never made me feel disrespected (and a few who have, who I would never see again). But the several previous amazing sessions I had with her are clouding my judgment, damn you little head!

At some time or another it happens to all of us, clients and providers alike. If this is unusual behavior and she knocks your socks off then by all means give her another chance. The right thing for her to do being she never did contact you back, is to maybe give you a deal or knock a few bucks off  your next appointment since you held up your part and she fell short on hers.

being late by a few minutes last time isn't really a big deal in the grand scheme of life - and it sounds like this attempt today may have been a tech glitch

also, if I'm reading your post right, you were texting while driving . . . very risky behavior, you're lucky to be alive, Bro - hopefully she wasn't doing the same

I would never do something illegal...like texting and driving . Seriously though, I texted from the parking lot, or red lights. Texting while driving is really not smart.

Been there, done that.
No matter the circumstances, she should contact you at some point and apologize. Ya, gotta take care of your customers.

First, I would say under the circumstances, I would not hold this against her.. Sounds like it was last minute, so she likely was rearranging planned activities in her life. Add in the tech issues. I would dro her a note and make sure she is OK.

until I hear from her, given your past relationship with her.

If she doesn't offer some sort of compensation for your lost time, stick to other girls for future plans.

This is ATL driving...Everything is risky.

Too many hot Ladies in ATL to wait for one.

I comment respectfully; wish I could use another word instead of pestered. It sounds completely negative, but I you know what I mean. Depending on her temperament, the rapid fire of your email messages, texts and phone calls could have shut her down completely.

Well, that's a good point...but that leads to another question then. If you set an appt with a provider, and they agree to the time, and you show up at the time and call (but don't hear back), how often is too often to call back/text/email? Since I have no way of knowing if she checks VM, or could receive texts (since her phone was acting up), and I showed up as we had agreed, then should I just sit and wait??

If she pulls this kind of thing again and it's becoming a pattern, you shouldn't waste your time on her again. I agree with the poster above, about how dependent we are on technology. Although I do remember a moment when I couldn't find my phone charger and it died. I had just gotten my laptop and was having having problems getting online. I had an appointment set up later that day and had no way to contact the client. So yeah, shit like that does happen. I ended up going to the library so that I could check my email to contact the client.

I hope things work out with her, good luck!