Thanks for your advice you sound like a really nice lady. You and Teri both sound like someone who understands a persons feelings and like I said both of you really have made me stop and think really. I would like to talk to you on the phone about the lady I am seeing and maybe you know her and could inlighten me more on her if you know her.I  really can't tell you her real name or stage name on the board I think you understand why LOL. again thanks  and yes I would really like to take you out to dinner you and Teri both seen like an honest and good hearted ladies Yours in Gung Fu Hey my E-Mail is [email protected] again thanks