can't seem to get call back from her.  wonder if I'm doing something wrong.  Does she work at a club?
Do I need to leave a bunch of messages every day (seems obnoxious)?  Maybe she has too many regulars?  
i just don't know - would referrals from other local providers help my case?

Need some coachin' here, dudes...

She's a well known head case. If you persist and she finally calls you back, it'll be well worth your while...trust me.

With the exception of working at a club, yes, to all of the above.