So I love partially clothed sex. Stockings or garters and heels still on, panties pulled to the side, skirt or dress just pushed up. But I have noticed in my young experience the ladies always fully strip down (which is by no means a problem). I was just curious to whether the partially clothed idea is only done by request (you ladies assume we want you fully naked) or is it by design (you don't want to make a mess of any particular clothing or avoid damaging them, such as ripped stockings etc.). Just a thought for discussion since the boards seem to have slowed down considerably.

There are times that I love stocking and heels, or the skirt or bra to be left on, etc. but I always try to make such things pre-appt requests - so that things never feel odd during the visit.

There have been times I've requested during the visit (a touch of spontaneity) but have never been met with a No. The ladies I've spent time with have been most accommodating of almost every request, but YMMV.

So I'd imagine it's a Request thing instead of a "Don't mess up my dress" thing. Then again, you bring the clothing, she probably wouldn't care either way! Lingerie seems to always be welcome.

I prefer total nude when the time for action is at hand. Including
No stockings or heels.

but I've seen one provider who does sensual massage only, fully clothed. Still a great session with happy ending.

Not sure whether that's 'cause they think most guys like it that way.  Some I've known greet you in a dress with nothing under (and one ATF in just a towel.)  Some others have left the thong on till they sense whether you want it on or off.  I've only had one strip down and hop on the bed without some sort of preference testing.  Betcha if you tell them what you like early on then you'll find them very cooperative.  But you are right - don't make a mess!

and I have some black suede 6 inch platform heels just for the occasion

Once I've seen a lady I will make request when I set up the appointment. If I think of something upon arrival I mention it then. I have requested she leave her skirt on a couple of times. I quite often (99 o/o of the time) request no panties & have enjoyed DATY before she removes any clothing.

Depends on the lady.  I know of one lady that says she likes her panties pulled to the side.  Normally, my preference is not to preplan such details, but I would object to her wearing a chastity belt. Unless I got the key in exchange for the envelope.  Oh wait, metamorphically, I guess I do.  

Tangent question, wondering if any ladies are noticing an uptake in guys leaving their socks on during the winter months?  I know I strike a fine figure in my black argyles.  (yep, slow day indeed.)

I never tire of a woman greeting me at the door with nary a stitch on.  Yet there is also the excitement of something new and different from time to time, a change in the scenery, a permutation on the perfunctory.  Keeps things fresh and alive.

Here is some surprising piece of news, providers are not min readers. Second, I prefer completely nude. I hate shoes even in porn.

Each their own, right?

Just request.

Very well said and couldn't agree with you more.
Anonymous-ass is more like it.

BTW, I prefer the heels and stockings on and I do request.

Reading comprehension is not a strong suit of yours is it?  Identify just one sentence, just one, in that entire post that would indicate I would assume that everyone would share the same preference as me.  Dont worry, I'll wait......But moving on.  Your post would have been better served with a revised subject and the first four sentences deleted being that the others had absolutely nothing to do with the post.  At no point did I indicate my belief that a provider was a mind reader, it was simply a question as to others' experiences and if there may be an unwritten preference that I am not aware of.  Next up, being that you provided a bitchy attitude of a high school valley girl, what could have possibly gotten into your head that I would have given a rat's ass what your preference was?  Especially following up your ray of sunshine opening to your post.  "Just request" would have been fully sufficient post.  But for some reason it is people like you, who for whatever reason remain perpetually unhappy and no matter the circumstances feel they must convey their s****y attitudes upon everyone else.  Clearly this hobby doesnt bring you as much happiness as you would have hoped, or maybe you are seeing the wrong ladies.  But regardless maybe you should find some sort of entertainment that maybe makes you a little less cynical.  You might enjoy life a whole lot more and wont feel the need to spread your s****y attitude everywhere else.

Hahahaha classic with the black argyles left on.  I think if I stepped out of the bathroom in nothing but my black dress socks I would have to fully expect a provider to kindly ask me to leave and require that they kept the envelope for forcing such an image on them.  I am surprised that doesnt show up on more ladies etiquette links: "all dress socks must be removed"

lingere'! I must own an entire Fredricks store in sexy lingere' lol Being naked is good too but usually I like to "wow" guys with all the sexy outfits I am definitely into my boots! I do have to slip my shoes off when the activities begin because I dont want you to go home with a heel mark on you anywhere Gets kind of wild sometimes ya know! lol I usually get lots of request to be all sexied up anyway but it is not just by request with me. Remember though the lady YOU have in mind may like to be naked. Each woman is different when it comes to this I'm sure You could get the best of both and have one lady naked and the other dressed in lingere'
Hugs and kisses
TL

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Ahh V you just get me . That is the ideal type situation. Lol

I love a good panties to side. Pants half down where she is propped up on a counter or leaning against a half wall.  Then you both get wet. And then the games begin