first i would like to say thank you to PW for supporting the decisions i make even if he doesn't agree with or understand them.  As for me doing things by myself now, it just had to be done.  Calling my number today is fine, however my daytime minutes are running low so if i don't answer please leave a message and i will call you back or send me and email.  thank you all and have a great day.  xoxo cheyanne