If you tend to be a bit "quick on the draw" then rubbing one out prior to a session might help you last longer. If you have no problems in that regards, then abstaining from ejaculating for a few days will result in a bigger load. Up to a point that is. I notice that I get a "full load" after about three days of no sex, anything after that the difference is minimal, and all it does is make me grumpy.

Truth be told, I can't remember the last time I jerked off. I also can't remember the last time I went more than 2-3 days without sex though. I will admit that on occasion I will abstain from sex for a couple of days on purpose if I know I am seeing someone who likes to swallow. I don't really care how big a load I shoot into a condom, but I love the feeling of shooing a really big load into a willing mouth.

Cum twice!  Fuck her for the first shot.  Have her give you a bbbjtcnqns for round two.  This will make you happy!

I dont have a cock BUT.....

You would have to pop a few times just to get me off lol  
Maybe you could book a longer appointment??  
Either way I hope you have fun
Hugs and kisses
TL

referrals?

I am obviously new to this.  Where or who can I find that swallows?  and about how much would that cost me?