Atlanta

Is it inappropriate to........
HofFer 1681 reads
posted
1 / 28

To ask a 300-400  an hour provider , if she'd be interested in a 30 minute session that includes just  modeling and HJ for say 150-200 ?

P.S.  This is really a question for the ladies. I'm sure that won't keep some of you a-hole trolls from responding.

Panthera12 1028 reads
posted
2 / 28

Then go for it. Personally, I wouldn't go there and be called a cheap ally cat.  
OTOH, there are providers who offer 1/2 hour sessions and I am sure many of them would be happy to dance and pose for 29 minutes and 30 seconds

ToniLove See my TER Reviews 1017 reads
posted
3 / 28

If a lady wants to see someone at that rate she would offer it to begin with. Why not find a lady that offers half hours at your price point instead of insulting the ones that dont.

ToniLove See my TER Reviews 756 reads
posted
4 / 28

Also contacting most ladies even discussing a rate n any kind of service will get your email deleted too ;

HofFer 859 reads
posted
5 / 28

I appreciate the honest feedback. That's what I was hoping for. I certainly wouldn't mean it as an insult. As I near the big 6-0, ED has certainly become an issue. Usually can't keep it up for main event, but enjoy the company and playfulness of attractive, younger women. Staying for an hour is now such a waste of time for me and the provider and as I say FS is usually not an option.
Thanks again.

ToniLove See my TER Reviews 1036 reads
posted
6 / 28

If that's the case, have you tried the female condom? It really is wonderful for guys with ED ;) You could also spend the rest of the time getting a great massage OR getting her off. You could still just keep with the ladies that offer half hours too lol

HofFer 1059 reads
posted
7 / 28

And I get that top shelf providers don't want to negotiate . If they don't offer 1/2. , is it wrong to ask if they'd consider 1/2 if you don't mention rate? I figure if they are interested, they'll mention price.

I can't tell you how many times I've paid for hour was ready to leave in 30-45 minutes.not mad, not disappointed in any way.....had just done when I had set out to do at least all that I was able to accomplish  to . And I didn't want to waste her or my time with idle chit chat

StinaValentine See my TER Reviews 1072 reads
posted
8 / 28

It's not so much inappropriate as it is annoying. If a lady does not put a 30 minute rate on her website, it usually means she does not offer it.

I was asked this question so frequently that I decided to put 30 minutes on my website, but for the same rate as my 1 hour. lol

ToniLove See my TER Reviews 998 reads
posted
9 / 28

Either pay her rate or find someone at your price point. Please don't haggle! Its annoying and insulting. If they are interested they will offer that rate to begin with! I have never met one single lady that has said "oh yea sure, I don't mind being haggled at all!"

ga_kosh 22 Reviews 836 reads
posted
10 / 28

You are paying for her time - nothing else. If you are asking to pay for "a 30 minute session that includes just modeling and a HJ for say 150-200", you are openly admitting to solicitation for prostitution. This kind of statement leads to you getting a lawyer on retainer and programming his number into your speed dial.  

Since you've made this post while using an alias, I'll proudly claim the title of A-hole Troll and say that you should have posted this on the Newbie Board. If you weren't a newbie, I'd suspect you'd use your real handle.

Troll advice - 3 parts:
1) You might inquire about half hour appts with anyone but be prepared for "If I wanted to provide half hour appointments, it would be on my website." Failure is always an option;

2) Any lady worth seeing will not discuss in graphic terms what may or may not be expected unless you're a regular and she's comfortable discussing your next date;  

3) Ginger's response was awesome. If you are a newbie, see her. She'll teach you right, and it just might be one of the more fun lessons of your life.

My 3 cents, ga_kosh

-- Modified on 12/30/2014 5:54:47 AM

foguete69 38 Reviews 966 reads
posted
12 / 28

so many out there no need to haggle if you want to dick her.  lol

her rate is her rate and that's that...but
I bet if you put out there what you are looking for and asked for a pm response
to your regular handle, you might not get what you want but you just might find
you get what you need !

-- Modified on 12/30/2014 6:53:31 AM

wheelchairman 54 Reviews 1060 reads
posted
13 / 28

If you mentioned any service for a price that is illegal. I am not a huge fan of half hour dates. I only did it once. Even a hour goes by too quickly.

If you read my reviews I mostly have the lady do BBBJ that's what I like. I don't asked the ladies. "Do you give BBBJ/CIM and how much will it be"? That's what TER is for. Most ladies have a menu on their site.

You are paying for her time only. The lady can go down on you for a hour or you two can be playing checkers. It still cost the same because you are paying for her time.

There is Viagra. I would go to the doctor and see if you can get some. Also being physically fit helps ED. Hit the gym. A lot of gyms are doing promo rates now cause of the new year.

Also there is foreplay. You can tell the lady you are good for one pop. She can make it last a bit longer. A BBBJ also feels great even if you don't pop again.

HofFer 1046 reads
posted
14 / 28

But I'm smart enough not to mention the activities I'm interested in during the initial discussion unless it's somebody I've seen before. I realize I didn't convey that that in my original post. My fault.

So, what I'm hearing is not to even ask for a 30 minute session unless she advertises it ?

ToniLove See my TER Reviews 929 reads
posted
15 / 28

That would be correct :)

ga_kosh 22 Reviews 687 reads
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16 / 28
LONGFELLA4YOU 3 Reviews 957 reads
posted
17 / 28

It's absolutely fine as long as you ask when you're  initially setting up your date.   However once a date is set any changes that reduce an agreed upon deal would definitely be frowned upon.  In the same breath many ladies will in fact try to upgrade your date once she has successfully peaked your interests.  

Good luck Fishing

HofFer 878 reads
posted
18 / 28

You've broken it down for me, TL. That's one thing I love about you, no grey area. No more haggling from this old boy.

You can't blame a guy for trying, can you ?

Sure wasn't my intent to offend anybody.

Happy New Year, everybody. Please don't drink and drive.

Caldon 284 Reviews 893 reads
posted
19 / 28

It's a purely personal thing, but if a lady is offended at you asking - assuming that you do it politely - then she probably does not deserve your business. Worst case always should be that she politely declines and the. You get to either go with the hour or move on elsewhere.

Many of the providers that post here on a regular basis, from time to time offer specials. (Presumably when business is slow) so even if they don't have it on their website, you might get lucky.

Got to echo Ginger - what you say and how you say it is important - on either side. Asking about time and rates for a lady's time, is ok - nothing else.

Have a happy, safe and pleasurable New Year.

HarryWacker 627 reads
posted
20 / 28

I've always wanted to use that line from ANIMAL HOUSE.

Happy New Year!

Advisor2008 212 Reviews 864 reads
posted
23 / 28

She can and often  will say no.  You must respect the no and move on.

Also there has to be a reason for her to say yes.  Off hours, part of multiple session commitment, etc,

Warning.  Several ladies will react very negatively to the request.  

I think your issue will be on 30 minutes.  If outcall you have zero chance IMO.  You will have better luck on 2 hr reduced rate or waiving outcall fee for an hour than for a 30 min session.  Prep time alone for lady is a killer for your bargain position.

Your odds will increase if you are an established client.  Rate concessions for first time dates are very bold request and will usually fail

Just my experience

Aliados 196 Reviews 742 reads
posted
25 / 28

I am a big fan of 30 minute appointments.  I am usually "one and done", so booking an hour is a waste of 30 minutes for me.  30 minute appointments also allow my "hobby dollars" to go further.  You can find a lot of great 30 minute providers in the 7/7 range.  Most providers who are $300/hour and 8/8 or better do not offer 30 minute appointments, but I think they use the higher pricing to screen their clientele more than anything.  It does not hurt to ask, but there will be some providers who will be offended and blacklist you.....I have found this out the hard way on more than one occasion. LOL

Caldon 284 Reviews 860 reads
posted
26 / 28

Posted By: HarryWacker
I've always wanted to use that line from ANIMAL HOUSE.  
   
 Happy New Year!

ToniLove See my TER Reviews 777 reads
posted
27 / 28

It's one of the more common complaints honestly from ladies that whom otherwise love what they do.  Ginger also made a good point about the safety issue as well.
Here to help if I can :)
Hugs And Kisses
TL

Advisor2008 212 Reviews 593 reads
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28 / 28
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