If you knew you were dying soon and only had one phone call to make,
who would you call and what would you say?

And why are you waiting?


Love & peace

TF

Because I do not know that I will die tomorror or today.  I would not call my family, I would call the one lady here that I would want to spend the rest of my life with and would have enough cash to give her so she would stay untill I die, it would be the way I would want to go, she would be richer and not be really bothered at my passing,not that she would not be sad I hope afterwards, but she I hope would just want to make me as happy as I could be for the little time I had left, you know how famly members, brothers, sibling and parents would be crying and making me sad. I would much rather spend it with her. Am I wrong??  Think about it.   Somedays as today, I feel like just going away. Strange you posted this today, Tony.   Jimmy

Okay... now you've got me thinking. I suppose I would call my mother, but she is thousands of miles away, and would probably go into panic/shock. Hmmm... I guess I would call the Lord, and ask him to forgive me for all of my wrongs, and let me come and live with him... I surely don't want to go to hell. I dunno.. I need to think about that some more, but right now, I'm not feeling so hot! So, I will have to wait for a day I don't feel so down...

We all have days when it seems that we are living lives of quiet desperation.
WE ALL HAVE THEM.
I have been to the very bottom of life three times.
Lower than whale s*^t in the ocean.
That is when lifes opportunities are greatest.
That is when you reach out to others to help them.
Yes, when you need it most, you give it away.
Doing it anonymously is the best way.
Do you know that 90% of all failure comes from giving up?
So, never quit, my friend, never say die.
Keep on keeping on.
Love and acceptance is all around us.


Remember the old saying...THIS TOO SHALL PASS...

Try the "Serenity Prayer". It REALLY works.

OK, OK, I am burning my soapbox as you read this...PROMISE...

I love you all.

Have a perfect evening.

Tony

Your phone should be ringing now!

To Tony and Jimmy, All that I have are two sons, one in California and one in VT. I like Jimmy's idea... now here comes the problem!!! Who should I pick to be with me. I've still got 5 or 6 in ATL that I must visit. Maybe none of the young ladies would want to spend hours, or even days waiting for me to move on LOLOL!!!
Did you guys pick out your lady???
O2

I didn't see anywhere in his post that it had to be a provider.

If it were me, I would call my Mother. I trust her enough to share with all of the other people I love how much they meant to me.

One person is hard to choose.

Life is short, make it count.

Good post tf1944

Sorry people, I really did mean a provider here on TER, and I do know who I would want. I'll get over it tho.  Jimmy

You have many friends right here on this board.
I have faith in you.
I know you will be ok.

I have mine all picked out too, just in case.

~I was thrilled to meet you and you have a tremendous way of making the most out of life~ Please don't ever loose that! Life is too short. If you are met head on with soemthing that challenges you, change your course!!! Please take care.. BC me if you need a smile kisses Candace

but now I cant cum... Something new to be depressed about.

~Glad I took the time to read the rest of your post~... my comment was, and kills the sex! ~a great hug and kind words sometimes are good,too.~

Just reminds me of the people stuck in the WTC on 9/11...

Some of them called loved ones and got answering machines and I would bet that even now, almost 3 yrs later, those messages still exist and are among the most cherished posessions the recipients will ever have. Sometimes just the sound of your voice that makes someone else's day. What you say can make a difference for the rest of their life.

Excuse me...gotta go make a couple of calls.

I've already been there.  I am the 4th person ever in the history of man to ever have cancer in the heart and I am the only one alive.  I am in the medical history books.  They gave me less than 2 weeks to live.  But the twist was that I wasn't out walking around like everyone else.  I was confined to a hospital bed.  Let me tell you what I learned.  Sometimes when you come to the lowest point of your life, I believe God is trying to reveal things to you but you have to open your eyes.  I had 2 good friends for 10 years (so I thought), but when I was dying I never heard once from them.  It hurt at first but that soon passed.  My cancer miraculously disappeared and that was 4 years ago.  I'm not sorry for what I had to go through because there was a lesson that I had to learn, except I had to learn mines the hard way.  Sometimes a person will say that they will be there for you through thick and thin but when s#@t gets thick they thin out!  I say all of that to say this, sometimes friends or what you may think is a friend come and go but family (if it is the right kind of family) will always be there.  So my answer would be my MOM.  Because if I know her she will grab a tape recorder and record my messages to my children and whoever else that I may have words for.  Pray about it.  God may not come when you want him to but he will come right on time.  TRUST ME!

it sounds like we have somethings in common.
somedays i just dont caer if i live ir die.
other days i feel so great.
i'm not  feeling weel today

Velly velly interesting, but velly velly depressing. Rucky for you I speak your ranguage. NOW,.... Everybody get up and live, live, live!!!

Is that supposed to be an insult?? ha!ha!ha! You're a joke to me.  Since you spoke your opinion, I thought that I would give you mines.  But don't worry, no matter what you post after this, I will not respond because I have been through too much and am too much of a lady to converse with ignorance.

Atta girl. You are lovely and classy and intelligent too.
The whole package.
You will do great, my dear.
I'm cummin to see you soon.
Love your website.

Chanel, please see posting at top about 3:00 pm. For some reason it got misplaced and appears at the top rather than immediately below your post.

If I took it the wrong way then I apologize for the remark.