So how does one alert the community about a rip off due to no show after a deposit was sent/ accepted  (and to date has not been returned some 3 weeks later)  

I tried writing a detailed review including the communications via text, email and phone back and forth for 5 days prior to the scheduled time  

The review was rejected  
Message from TER stated;  

“ Your review is a "no-show" review. TER does not post reviews where the author did not meet the provider face-to-face”.

So I tried posting on the regional board. (I was in Myrtle Beach at the time ) but now over a week later that still hasn’t  posted  

Last. I checked the “RIP OFF” tab under reviews but I see no option to post a new one  

Thanks in advance  

Post it here.  But that's just what I would do, even though I would never send a deposit.

Otherwise, I would not send her a deposit or risk no more than $50 if I was particularly smitten by her ad.  

I know many guys do it but your story proves the point

How does his story  prove your point she refunded his deposit.  
Alot of guys don't want ti give out personal info nor have references or some girls don't  respond to references. So a deposit is the easiest  fastest  way to  make sure a guy isn't playing or LE

Which is all too typical

Where does the OP say his deposit was refunded??

She had a long history  of mostly positive reviews  

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I just went back and look at her review on here and lo and behold my no show review is now there  
Not sure when that happened as I stopped looking shortly after TER sent me the note that it couldn’t be published

No refund  

Totally ghosted from the day of our scheduled appointment  
I’ve called. Left voice messages. Texts. Emails. Refund request via the cash app we used  

Nothing

Oh my bad i thought  this was that other thread where the chick canceled and commented without reading the OP. Well thats horrible there wasn't a refund  of deposit  i know i refund  every time a girl cant make it last minute  im sure its plenty  that can vouch  for that