...that it was true I would stay away.
TER had a policy against mentioning BBFS in reviews. However, they eventually changed that policy. They figured that you would want to know in advance if a provider offered that, and would be able to make a decision on whether or not to see that provider based on that knowledge.
Recently, it has come to my attention that there's something else that I would want to know in advance about a provider, and then make the same decision about whether or not to see her. TER has a policy against mentioning drug use in a review. Frankly, I would never see a provider who uses drugs. I am completely clean, and I want to see providers who are clean as well. I would prefer to know in advance if a provider used drugs, so I could choose not to see her. I feel that TER needs to allow this in reviews. Thoughts?
...that it was true I would stay away.
Bringing, mentioning, or using during a session is unprofessional in my opinion.
Off topic, thank you for the reviews you write.. I really appreciate your honesty. They're aren't many brutally honest reviewers like yourself and I appreciative that.
Glad you find my reviews helpful.
I am sure lots of the ladies would want to know too. I know if knew a lady was doing some dope I wouldn't want to take a ref from her at all. I would rather not. I spent many years of my life on drugs and believe me there are ladies that ARE doing drugs. I can see that shit from miles away and I can not tolerate this type behavior myself and I know tons of ladies that would agree. Now as far as helping them, well I would probably break my leg trying to help them but I would not feel safe taking refs from a drug user.
This is a good topic that really need to be discussed and thanks for posting it
Hugs and kisses
TL
pretty prevalent with wall street big wigs, rich and lazy party goers. Drug use is higher in the so called upper echelons of our society and they get way with it.
LE only arrests and send poor, hopeless drug users because they don’t have the means to defend themselves.
Never used drugs, but the injustice meted out by our society is disgusting.
We will put them in prison costing $60 to $80/year to tax payers but would not rehabilitate them to make productive humans.
My real issue with publishing about providers it will end up being used for punitively by someone who wants pick a bone with a provider.
Isn’t there enough of this crap already, why add more oil
Yes I would agree that there are lots of men that use drugs too. I have been asked "do you party?" many times and tell them "I am sure not the way you do" lol and they get told to fuck off!
I actually had a guy walk in my place so fucked up out of his mind that is was impossible for him to hide. he was asked to leave and never contact me again. Funny thing is, a highly respected and reviewed lady gave me a "highly recommended" on him. He even said he and she would barter with drugs. Not sure if it was true or not but I never took a ref from her again because of this.
Yes the drug users really get no help but rather just thrown in prison. This will not help them and it would probably cost much less to just get them some help. Prisons have drugs just like on the streets. I spend a lot of time counseling families of meth addicts because help will start there for free. The families can help more than anyone.
Yes I have thought that some may use this just to hurt a provider but at the same time many ladies are using things such as meth and coke to stay slim. Just think if you were sitting at a ladies incall and BAM! a knock at the door and its the cops. Guess what? you will go to jail with her. LE DOES pay attention to providers that use drugs more than ones that do not. Think about it, more charges and you would get one too!
If I were a guy I would want to know if a lady I was wanting to see was using drugs. If someone is just trying to hurt a lady's rep then the truth would eventualy come out IMHO. You can usually tell if someone is high or not especially with things such as meth or coke. You just cant hide that shit for long. I can see your point but I think the safety of us all is paramount.
Hugs and kisses
TL
Yes I know of providers who have told clients that so and so or so and so does drugs JUST to try and prevent those clients from seeing someone else besides them. One lesson to learn that men hate drama and hopefully don't listen to it and go see for themselves. I find it odd too that you didn't mention marijuana. Maybe the same guys want to know that too. Your thoughts counselor? Well here's mine...... People in glass houses shouldn't throw stones.
Yes just like you Ms Scottie
Why in the hell would I tell anyone you are on drugs or anyone else you know as I haven't even seen you all in A LONG LONG TIME? I do believe it is the other way around. AND you KNOW FOR A FACT what someone has said to a client?? lol Were you in the room when they were fucking too? It is funny how you and your buddy keep saying "oh you say this or you say that" when it sounds to me like MY name is the one that keeps coming out yalls mouths. Funny my post seemed to piss you off lol I really don't give a rats ass who you see and Id rather NOT us see the same folks anyway as I would prefer you all NOT know where I am or who I fuck
Do you REALLY think I am lacking for business? LMAO!! Not hardly and for you to come on here and start this shit when your house is glass just makes me LMAO
No I didn't mention Marijuana BUT while we are on the subject lets do discuss it. Id be more than happy to talk with you about this
Nice try TRYING to make me out to be a drug user but you can try that shit somewhere else because I am straight as one can be. YES I DO counsel families of meth addict but you seem to have a major problem with that. Why is this?
Didn't want to start any drama here but if you insist on a whore war over something and someone you really don't know shit about then be my guest
Yea men hate drama but let me say this, when a guy comes to see me we are way to busy FUCKING. Geez I knew that once I mentioned being a counselor one of you would get pissed lol lol lo
Did I say you were talking about me? I don't think so. I just suggested that you look before you leap. Im merely asking why you are excluding marijuana that's all. Last time I knew the police can come kick your door in for that too. So before providers start naming names who are a threat to their business and not for the clients protection they may want to invest in some good deadbolts. Or did they change the laws here. Hey nothing against smoking pot Im all for legalizing it, but for now its no different than anything else. Maybe I should have said "People in "grass" huts shouldn't store thrones"
Did you know that marijuana the evil weed we spend billions trying to eradicate is legal in some states. It looks like you sole purpose of posting is to create a drama.
Other than some hypocritical piss ant like yourself, no one considers marijuana is ion the league as meth, acid, cocaine, etc
Some men hate drama.
Other men create, direct and enjoy drama immensely
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Just saying....why all the drama ??
Sure you would.....however...unless you actually witnessed the gal taking the drug how would you really know she was a user? I suppose needle tracks, open sores, white powder around her nose ....but seriously....maybe she is acting kind of weird....her normal could be your weird....point being...a lot of risk to rushing to judgement.....suggest that if you would encounter a gal who's behavior doesn't align with your expectations...back off gracefully and move on...lest you risk a false and unfair accusation...Just sayin'''''...
Recently, it has come to my attention that there's something else that I would want to know in advance about a provider, and then make the same decision about whether or not to see her. TER has a policy against mentioning drug use in a review. Frankly, I would never see a provider who uses drugs. I am completely clean, and I want to see providers who are clean as well. I would prefer to know in advance if a provider used drugs, so I could choose not to see her. I feel that TER needs to allow this in reviews. Thoughts?
If you can’t figure out a drug addict on your own you are pretty much a useless. When someone mentions it in a review, it is purely one man’s speculation about another person which can turn it punitive behavior.
There is plenty of that already.
Before you publish your selfish preference sit back and think what potential harm it can do to another individual.
The essence of freedom is:
“One can only exercise their freedom as long it does not harm another or keep another from exercising their freedom”
Print it in 48 point Font and hang it over your desk where you sit publish your preference about wanting to know about another.
I am not bashing you but the thoughtlessness of some of these post is appalling at best and disgusting at worst.
However, the same could be said of BBFS reviews. I would never see a provider who offered BBFS. There are plenty of guys who might publish in a review that BBFS was offered if only to hurt the providers' biz.
All of the reviews on TER are technically hearsay, aren't they? Fictional stories used for entertainment purposes only? It's up to the individual reading them to make a decision on whether to go or not. I'm just trying to make sure that that individual has all the info they can.
All of the reviews on TER are technically hearsay, aren't they? Fictional stories used for entertainment purposes only? It's up to the individual reading them to make a decision on whether to go or not. I'm just trying to make sure that that individual has all the info they can.
...Don't remember exactly when it started. Seems it was around the time they had a BBFS question for the survey on the home page and when they started allowing the discussion of BBFS on the boards.
I just heard from TER feedback. Evidently they do allow BBFS reviews now - but they pull them if the provider requests it.
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