why men lie on these reviews. Being that I am "new" on the scene, the first few reviews are very crucial when it comes to a provider "building their brand". You have to be extremely careful about the things you say. I guess because I'm new, I'm expected not to say anything but I'm only human. I'm not trying to start an argument or drama, but it's interesting how my 1st and 2nd reviews are on 2 totally different spectrums. As I do have to respect your point of view, mallatomale, I don't have to agree with it because you flat out LIED. As it wasn't a terrible review, it surely wasn't an honest one. The readers may not know this but I commented on his "bareback provider" post earlier this week and he PM'd me stating that he felt I was taking a "jab" at him (he reached out after our session stating that it wasn't his "ideal" session) therefore I guess this review is my "payback". As you will come to find, I am an extremely clean, kept, discreet, PROFESSIONAL human being that enjoys making fantasies a reality. I'm sorry that you feel you did not receive that from our session. I like to keep this a fun, safe hobby. Maybe you should take the advice of one poster who mentioned that you start all over and post under a different handle as your post/reviews are continuously controversial. I don't appreciate the fact that you are trying to put me in a certain "category" I truly don't belong in. I feel that it's a little disgusting that you would write something like that about me, I'm not just a "companion" I'm a REAL person, an eternal optimist, as I don't feel that this review would hinder my business, but what you said I just can't get past, so I felt it was necessary to share what happened in our session from my point of view.
MM has been given the cold shoulder by two providers lately lol.
But no really, I read the review and it's not the worst review especially since It starts with YMWV. You are new. Most men will take this into account when booking you. Your first review was a good one from a respectable hobbyist so men on here might just think that the chemistry between you and MM was not good, and hey it does happen!
And since MM BB provider post, some men might not even take his review into consideration. Although it seems like MM has a rep for trying to get back at providers that don't give him what he is looking for, his review might not be so far off. It was HIS experience.
Don't worry about your first average review. They should get better as you become more experienced.
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Good point, I agree with you. It wasnt a get back review though. I almost didnt do a review, so not to hurt her start. Even pm my issues with the session. A top 30 provider helped me understand that all reviews are good to do. Never trash a girl. But By saying ymmv, it helps readers understand that we just didnt click. So that's what I did. I dont need the reviews for a VIP I paid for the year upfront.. so I felt like it was worth doing.
Yea a second cold shoulder.. lol.. it really wasnt my week..lol.. it happens to the best of us.. I hope.. last week was much much better for me..
Not cool, not cool at all
Your TER profile says you only provide cbj, under TER guidelines I would've scored you a 7 or lower as well.
My point exactly!
Your TER profile says you only provide cbj, under TER guidelines I would've scored you a 7 or lower as well.
...TER guidelines services she offers (based on her profile) qualifies her for an 8 in performance.
I'm not saying she had to be given an 8 but your comment made me think you thought 7 was all she could get. Though mallatomale said she didn't kiss him her profile says kiss with tongue - yes, that qualifies her for 1 point above 7.
If you don't kiss and you don't provide a blowjob, how can you possibly get anything higher than a 7 under TER guidelines?
It has to be an option, as it was part of another's session. Just not with mine..I totally respect the other gent and have heard by all providers, he is great. So I say.. ymmv. I dont get why she is bitching on here. I thought I was kind in the review. Oh well ill play the bad guy again..lol
Mostly pointing and laughing at m&g..lol
You're an idiot. Quit digging.
You were salty because she rejected you, so you threw off on her on the board.
However here you did nothing wrong, you wrote an honest review... and for a provider to call you out and bitch about your score on the board is not cool.
...happened in the session only what's offered. Yes, I believe as you probably do, that it doesn't make sense but that's the way it is.
That brings me to my opinion that the performance score should not be based on services but only on actual quality of performance. But that's another topic and it's been beat to death.
Again I'm not saying he should have given her an 8 only that he could have.
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I will reread the guidelines, but I think you're right..
However I will have to respectfully disagree with your opinion on not basing performance scores on services.
Xyz23 How does a gal who doesn't kiss, and gives you a cbj, provide exceptional service.
...she did whatever service was provided. If it was a covered bj how well was it done? If she kisses with tongue how well does she do it? Whatever service is provided how well was it done? The details of the review and her profile are sufficient to show what services she provides and let you know if she provides what you are looking for. Now it's possible she won't provide what you want so you simply don't see her. But if you did see her you would know going in the quality of the services she provides.
...while it's clear he wasn't impressed with the session he didn't bash you. Unless you can prove something in his review didn't actually happen your best bet is to drop it since you have said what you wanted to say. It's your first review according to the date. Your second one is a good one. Others checking you out will likely take that as learning and improving. Were I researching you his review wouldn't automatically put me off.
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And that's all I've got to say about it.
Malattomale: please. Stop. Talking.
(No disrespect)
No problem baby.. in my Dick Vitale voice..
Makes me wish I'd never stopped by here tonite. What a tool.
Malattomale: please. Stop. Talking.
(No disrespect)
Yet you stay. Just leave.
Like watching a train wreck slo mo. Keep watching to see how bad it gets. Now we learn yo talk about dudes with the ladies. You need to shut up. Yesterday.
Still here? I'm sure it's way past your bed time grandpa.
The op, there have been guys that I have refused to kiss and I LOVE to kiss. Also when I first started I too offered nothing but CBJ. That was 12 years ago but with that being said I have been doing bbbj for years now and when I started doing bbbj I was dating a dental surgeon. He explained to me if your gums are healthy and you are not prone to bleeding gum it is so hard to get anything from CIM. This does by TER guidelines make it possible for you to get a higher score. I am not in any way trying to get you to do something you don't want! I am just trying to help you understand the facts about bbbj since this seems to be some issue here.
Now the 'what you consider' a bad review, I have had some low scores before and trust me EVERYONE cant click all the time. It is just as simple as that. You just keep doing what you enjoy and I truly believe you do enjoy it! Seems you want to take your business to the next level or you would not care about this review. Just keep in mind that seeing a guy you have never laid eyes on before IS definitely a YMMV anytime you don't know them. Also I am so sorry you are dealing with this because I know it can be a hard thing to swallow. Oooops the word swallow may not be appropriate at this time! lol but look if you need anything I am here to help any way I can
Bringing this to the board usually is not the best solution though ESPECIALLY with you being new
if you have PM I am going to PM you now
Hugs and kisses
TL
Thank you TL. Kisses to you. I can't help my defensive nature, but I agree, enough is enough.
When ever I saw ymmv in a review, I took it as the man was taking more of the blame for the not so great time.
So a simple, sincere question. If YMMV equates to YOUR being to blame for a poor session, why write a crappy review? Why make HER pay the price for your issues? Especially a new gal? Why not do no review or see her again and get your performance 'up to speed?' Just wondering. Tganks in advance for your reply.
When ever I saw ymmv in a review, I took it as the man was taking more of the blame for the not so great time.
Look dumb ass.. my milage never varies.. trust me.. I get great feed back from all ladies, recently asked not to be so detailed in a review, as it may lead to expectations/disappointments with other guys. I was being nice in the review, but you are not helping her. My review wasnt bad, I never trashed her. It wasnt a good time , wtf am I supposed not review? Read the review again and then comment.
Dude go away.. I'm simply responding to your ignorant attacking comments.
lol ok. I've served my purpose here. You've been exposed as a narcissistic, stud wanna be, who whines about posts he doesnt like to admin to get them deleted with even a WK hooker defending you. Surely ladies of the ATL will be lined up to see you now!!!! And at least I can scratch one lady off my 'to see' list. Wonder how many other guys have followed suit as well? Adios.
Dude go away.. I'm simply responding to your ignorant attacking comments.
What?