Most people have a real misconception about providers. In the 12 years I've been in the "hobby", I've had the good fortune to meet some great people that are providers. I've found them to be some of the kindest, classiest, sweetest, most generous and most intelligent people I've ever met. Now, I have met a couple that were obviously just in it for the money and I have no desire to see them again. But , I've met a couple that I consider really good friends.

Just one man's musing on a lazy Saturday afternoon.

Did they remove your post?

we just had so damn far to go.

I mean people outside the hobby. Only a couple of my friends know that I hobby. I THINK the rest of my friends think of street walkers and low down people when they think of escorts/providers, etc.

Most of them don't have a clue about the high quality of person that most of the providers I've met are. Like I said earler, some of the most intelligent, classiest and sweetest people I know are providers. I mean that.

Just my opinion.

As frustrated as I get with TER at times, this is a great tool for the hobby. If you do your homework, there is really no excuse for a bad experience.

The ladies in this thing of ours are a microcosm of society itself. Some are average, some deceitful, and some absolutely spectacular human beings.

It is a wonderful thing when you can meet beautiful, strong, smart, witty, caring, independent women...................and boink them.

Just sayin'

(and I'll bet you thought I "agreed" that you thinking is dangerous when you saw the subject line)

Does not mean they aren't "kind, sweet, classy, and intelligent" or worthy of being friends.  Like any service base professional, they are only in it for the money.  The smartest ones know that those attributes help bring in more money from dedicated customers.

That said, and like DD pointed out, there are great ladies in Atlanta, and then there are those I prefer to avoid. Just like several ladies will same things about us guys.

Thanks for the thread.

It is all about “you get what you give”.

Thats really sweet and TRUE. I know many ladies that are some of the most geneuine people I've ever met!

Brad,
It's about the money - it's a business and that's the way it should be.  I'm sure that many are genuinely kind and classy but it's a business.

They wouldn't be quite as nice and kind without that $300 donation.  

Not that many of the women aren't as you described because I think they are - but most of these women are taking care of themselves and their families - their ability to manage your emotions help them with that.

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the friends I have made through hobby are down to earth, genuine than some civvie friends. I appreciate that aspect greatly.

None of my  friends outside of my hobby adventure know about my adventures. I am very private that way about many of my personal details.

I know Brad and I think what he meant is that some providers actually hate what they are doing and it shows.  They are truly ONLY doing it for the money.  Some are doing it out of desperation.  I think you can tell when that is the case.     On the other hand, many providers love what they do (like me) and are not ONLY doing it for the money, although it is definitely the biggest part of it.  And I believe that shows as well when you spend time with a lady who feels that way.