We are all adults here (well, most of us are) - take some time, rebuild the finances, remind yourself this is a "hobby" that is "Transient Fantasy Fun" and when you want to come back, do so under your own terms. Only suggestion I can give, if the lil guy starts demanding some lil guy time, go see someone you have already seen and find yourself thinking about, or AMP - whomever you choose is between you and them/her.
Everyone's reason for needing a break is different. In my case, I take some time off when I find myself blurring those lines of transient fun and wistful thinking about a LTR.
At any rate, enjoy your Holidays - like I wrote in subject header - we'll leave the light on. (Probably should have used a more upscale slogan than that one, but you I'm sure you catch the idea.)
Posted By: Brad45M
After some reflection of some recent events in my "hobby" life, I've reached the conclusion that I may need some time off from the hobby.
It's sure been fun. I've met some wonderful ladies and fellow hobbiests for that matter. Several of the ladies I consider great friends, much more that "just" a provider. I'm afraid I may have a little bit of an addictive personality ( Is it possible to have a little bit ? ). I guess some may say OCD. Whatever, I get too wrapped up in it sometimes.
On occassion, I've exchanged notes with such respected hobbiests as Phoenix Rising, BWCoyote, Foquette, Matchamp. They were always gentlemen and were always right on with their advice/recommendations.
JimmyPW's M & G's are always a blast. I live some 3 hours from Atlanta, so I haven't made them all....but the ones I have gone to have been great. I've met some providers there that I later saw and they were some of my best sessions.
The one this summer, in my opinion, may have been the best. I had a little private time with one of the ladies there and watching Katie Kayne interact with the JFL ladies on the pool tables was incredible.
Anyway, so long for how...it's been fun !
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