Hello

Since you seem determined to try and mess with my business, I can at least expose you for the liar that you are. If anyone believes the reviews that you wrote it is only because they are as braindead as you obviously are.

First of all, it is obvious that you are both the same person. Proof? In both reviews you: claim to have seen me because of my reviews here, state disappointment with my appearance, use the statement YMMV, say you were rushed, and report that I was spacey and messy.

Second, you make referances which under inspection, are obvious lies. You say that I wore no makeup, and that my pictures were airbrushed, old and that I was wearing a lot of make-up in them.
But my pictures do not show my face. Also the photos on my site are dated, taken only a month ago... by a reputable VIP and reviewer.  You say that I had my eyes on the clock the whole time. How can that be, since there was not a clock in the room? I DO NOT RUSH. I have NEVER handed a man his clothes.

Third, and most importantly, you make a major point of saying that you would not be back, don't recommend my services and go out of your way to insult me. I think you have entirely too much time on your hands. I did not rip you off. I treated you nicely.

BUT   the truth of the matter is this:

YOU, SIR, were ROUGH, CRUDE, DEROGATORY and UGLY. We did not connect, but it was not my fault. It was yours. Stop being childish and trying to hurt me. MOVE ON. It will not cause you any loss of sleep if I do well. But to take personal pleasure out of trying to ruin my business is SICK.

GROW UP.

Well if he wasn't "ROUGH, CRUDE, DEROGATORY and UGLY" he probably would not need to see you.  Think of yourself as a social muse.  Your beauty and grace are meant to inspire him, lead him into the world of charm and sophistication.  I think you should use this as a time for introspection.  What went wrong?  Why could I not reach him?  Am I not still the "Musest with the mostest?"  These are hard painful question indeed.

As far as attacking ugly people, now you are attacking hobbyist worldwide and that hurts me where I live.  I did nothing to you and did not deserve this unwarranted attack.  Every night of a successful day you should thank God for ugly people.  They put food on your table, roof over your head,,,,,.  I think you may wind up on the hobbyist blacklist.  

BTW, it is very transparent what was occurring with the meathead.

IMHO, you are making yourself look bad with your rants.  If members of TER see one bad review in the middle of a bunch of good reviews, they will believe the good reviews.  You are probably scaring potential clients away with these rants.

Rhiannon,

I wouldn't bother with open assaults like this.  It only brings attention to the poor reviews and adds fuel to their fire.  Don't give your enemy a reason to continue.

Those of us that know shit from shinola can see that your overall average is pretty damn good.  

I can tell you what I look for, although it may not apply to all hobbyists.  I look for solid reviews from established reviewers.  If you get a good review from someone that reviews often, that rates high with me.  It also helps when said reviewer has also reviewed a provider that I have seen/reviewed.  This helps me compare 'notes.' if you will...

However, on that trend, I also look for first-time reviewers.  Yes, it is true we all have to start somewhere, but first time reviewers on a new provider usually (not always) mean self-post.  There are no accusations here, I am just telling you what I look for in my quest for provider-induced bliss.

These boards are great for hobbyists.  For a provider they can be great and not-so-great at the same time.  Give it time and let your reputation build.  Once it does, there will be no need to defend yourself.

My $.02

There is nothing to see here, move along.

These two reviews represent the second and third (just my count) instances where you attack your reviewers (only those that give substandard reviews of course).

Your performance is inconsistent.  Try changing that, not your client's opinions.  

I suggest that before each appointment, you clear your mind and prepare mentally to pamper the next client.  Focus on totally  pleasing him, we like that you know.

BTW - I saw you recently but decided not to post a review because I attributed my dissapointment equally to first time jitters (which I'm willing to accept at least half responsibility) and my own performance.  I understand further that you are going through major stress at this time in your life.  However, as your client, you need to be more professional and focus on my needs, not your worries.

I'm not sure you can accept constructive criticism, but here are some suggestions that would help your business.  Be better prepared - dry your hair, put on makeup and a nice outfit. In my case, your hair was still damp and not "fixed up", no makeup, and you wore someone else's wrinkled shirt. Clean the place up and have clean towels ready for us guys and maybe something to drink.  Also, you did not even once ask me what I liked...

Here are some positive comments - You are comfortable with men and are not afraid to perform - that's a GOOD thing.  I agree that you were NOT a clock watcher, I was there for the full duration of my appt (maybe longer).  You didn't have any restrictive "rules" and are willing to go for 8, 9 and 10 performance ratings.

Rhiannon, I think the problem is that you are not aware of the high level of service that is available here in ATL.  You can offer that, but you must try harder and pay more attention to details and your clients.  In my opinion, all the little dissapointments are attributable to "correctable errors".

Please consider making a few adjustments in your business practices to offer us guys a better experience in the future....
More importantly, learn to accept dissappointing reviews in the future.  You will scare away the regulars here with vindictive missives.

best of luck to you..

-- Modified on 10/30/2003 7:26:31 AM

I know I know better than all of this but it was such a shock this guy continuously posting negative reviews (it is the same guy) He has also been sending me nasty emails.  That made it worse.

I even had to move locations because of him.

It gets pretty scary out here as a provider you know.

Jack, Can I offer you a second timers treat - 1 hr for 1/2 price and then if I have substantially improved performance wise you can write a review for me? I want to prove myself.

BTW-- I used to have the BEST place and ALWAYS looked my best. I HATE working out of a hotel. I feel disconnected.

It will get better. I know.

Thanks for the support guys!

R

I have seen your reviews and they are great, needless to say u will not be everyones cup of tea, I have realized that in the almost 5 yrs in this biz....Your good reviews will always out way the bad....Like MrE stated u will chase away potential clients if u keep complaining about them on this board....Just let your reputation speak for yourself and enjoy what u do....Don't mean to come across rude just trying to give u some advice that I have learned...Be safe but have fun!!

T

FOXthatROCKS, so sorry this has happened.  You and I have never had a session so I can't comment on your services.  
However, I think all the other posts are correct.  Please also remember you are in a service business.  Unfortunately, this means dealing with the public, some of whom are jerks.  At the same time this also means that most people understand that some customers are jerks and no one could make them happy.  
Some service industry people think they want every customer.  This is so false.  There are some customers you just don't want.  I won't state my business, but we have suggested competitors just to be rid of troublesome people.  
Once again I am sorry for your distress.  However, I really believe your best attitude is to take the long view that says you found a customer you don't want and that good service will win in the end.

Geez, why don't you just put up a sign that says, "DON'T SEE ME".

Just focus more on being a wonderful provider, and everything else will fall into place.  Here, as in life, you will run into jerks occasionally -- and, as in life, the best way to deal with them is to ignore them.  Do you really think that your ranting will have any effect on the person(s) you're aiming towards?  Or will it merely have a negative impact on those who may be considering your services?

In this business, attitude is everything.  The customer rules.  We're the ones with the cash and hard decisions, and every little bit of information helps us to make those decisions.

You'll catch more flies with honey!

bzzzz

Rhiannon,
I am so sorry you don't deal with reality well!  You are the one trying to mislead people.  I only stated truths.  I have not given a bad review to others I have seen because we MUTUALLY had a good time.  You on the other hand were a disappointment.  I truely hope you improve your preparedness for you future appt's and focus on your end of the deal.  You should work harder at giving someone at least close to their moneys worth.  I didn't come on here to bash you.  I am sure that whenever you feel like it you might provide someone a good time.  I am sorry my time was not one of those.  I wrote my review to educate others who have taken their time and done so for me likewise.  It is pretty simple what we as hobbyists want, a good time.  If you work as hard at providing that than you do at blasting unfavorable reviews then you may have hope.
Good luck to you, and please, keep it real.
Souprdawg