I was interested in seeing this new and upcoming providers who has amazing review after amazong review. When I called to confirm our appt, she said she would be running late because she was just finishing up with a client.

Now maybe I'm being a little too sensitive but I was very turned off that she told me she was with a client right before seeing me. It was a huge turn off actually.

What do you guys think. Providers, did she break a rule? Any 2 cent is good here.

By the way, she ended up canceling by text an hour and half passed our scheduled appt. LOL

As for the cancellation, that's total BS.  And herein lies the absurdity of some of the TER rules.  Even though this is total BS, the rules won't let you post a review to warn others that this girl is a .... (fill in your own description) I choose ripoff.

As for the other issue of telling you she is running late cause she is just finishing up with a client, I don't see any issue with that.  There could be lots of justifications.  If you truly take offense to knowing that she was just with someone, I'd say you have the problem on this one.  This is not husband and wife, boyfriend and girlfriend, or anything close.  It's p4p and her objective is to make as much of her time as she can ... if you think that's a secret, well, perhaps you'd be better off looking for a bar girl in civvy life.

I never tell clients I am seeing other clients....that's not what they want to hear.  I don't blame you for being turned off.  Then she ended up canceling?  Probably for the best....

1. I would warn other hobbyists publicly (this Board) on the NCNS/cancellation, if that is indeed what happened.

2. With respect to your real question, she may not have broken any "rules"; however no one wants to hear that their schedule is going to be negatively impacted because the Provider's running late because she had not finished fucking someone else in time to make your appointment. I know that in the P4P world, hobbyists cannot get too bent out of shape that the lady is seeing other clients prior to his appointment, however, I would hope that each Provider schedules at least an hour or two between appointments to shower, freshen up, recoup, etc from the prior appointment.  I have arrived at incalls early before, been told the Provider is running late, and then see some other guy leave and then 5 mins later I'm told to come on in.  Not a chance in hell.  That is a legitimate reason to leave, in my opinion.

and hear some honest comments and opinions !! Thank -you sir

Telling you she is going to be late because of another client?! HuH! Now I don't care if she had another client. I don't care if she told me she had a client before me. I do care that seeing him makes her late for me. HuH?! Can't she schedule any better than that? You were scheduled for a certain day and time. How hard is it to keep that straight? Yes, stuff happens every once in a while. That's not what this is.

Then she sent you a text to cancel an hour and a half after your scheduled time. Cancelling, again, stuff happens. In this case she cancels after telling you she would be late because of an appointment with another client. Not acceptable! What was her reason for cancelling?

That she told you she was seeing a client before you. Not a big deal to me.
That she cancelled. Depending on the reason, not a big deal.
In this situation with these particulars. Yes, both are a Very Big Deal.
Like Stevie Wonder sang, "movin' on, movin' on".

Of course I know and understand the lifestyle of the Provider and being the Hobbyist. The turn off was. The provider pretty much informing me, I'm finishing up getting banged by this guy, now I'm off to see you.

In the back of my mind I also feel like I may get the short end of the stick because its a back to back appt so the Provider may be wore out and tired. But like I said, maybe I am being sensitive.

before she is allowed to provide.  By that I mean know what customer service means
and the fantasy of the dark room.  lol

You want to cause its a Turn on"fetish",  "I have clients that want to hear that" but I NEVER just come out & tell them that!Believe me I'm very discreet & give 100% respect . But I have had a few clients that want me to tell them that I was with someone else "even if I wasn't" cause that was there thing .Now about her cancelling for no other then Emergency "out of her control" That is Rude!
My advice: is move on & don't waste your time with her again.Believe there are some Amazing women in Atl & Any other city you visit.Your in good hands with TER.

I think you are being a tad bit sensitive

geez man we are grown Men i think we all know what happens during the day before our session starts. Job description "provider" However there is no excuse for her canceling your appointment, NCNS aren't acceptable.

My advice, give her a chance to make it up to you if she doesn't then it's fair game to blast her on the boards.

If you're going to be in this game you need to have thicker skin, the truth is the provider you are about to see has probably been fucked by a few different guys before you. I apologize for being so brutally honest, but I felt it was warranted

Just a suggestion.

You think the amount of money matters. I have hobbied rich and hobbied bargain basement. this is a money making venture full of competition. I had a $700.00 an hour lady tell me she had two others scheduled the day I wanted so I ended up being last that day. I mean the 1000 an hour girls price themselves for low volume, but it would be retarded to think they would pass up a few extra gents for you. I guess they are saving themselves for the big spenders. Lol ridiculous. Im not saying no lady turns down buisness or holds to a daily gent limit, im saying its stupid to assume that paying more entitles you to anything more than time. lol

And was doing a long form!

There is always someone out there who is going to misinterpret what's being said.

I come on TER and read the reviews of the Providers I would like to see so obviously who she has been with isn't an issue. i don't see myself falling in love or becoming some jealous hobbyist.... Not my style. But, I was curious what you guys thought.

If this has ever happened before, thoughts,  from hobbyist and I wanted to here what Providers thought.

To me, hearing she was coming from someone else made me think she may not be all the way into what we had planned. I dunno call me crazy but I hear some Providers not wanting to get overused by seeing back toback to back clients so I figured that's what I was going to have to deal with... A worn out Provider.

Her, cancelling... Whatever. I saw an amazing top notch provider the next day. That's whats great about this hobby and Atlanta.

Hey now as in all aspects of life, there are exceptions to every "rule" I am 22, educated and sexually SKILLED beyond my years....don't count all of us "youngsters" out....you'd be missing out Of course I can only speak for me...As for telling a client I am running late bcuz of another appt., I think that is unclassy and unprofessional. I personally wouldn't revealto ANYbody I just got done seeing someone for a multitude of reasons, nout just for the next appts. sake..there are other risk factors of "putting your business out there"

I know it is a game, but I kind of dig the whole GFE thing.  Wouldn't have a GF that was telling me she just got done with her other BF.

I'm not stupid and I know this is how it works, but let me live my short fantasy.

I think we all know that there's no guarantee we won't be #2 or #3 for the day, I'd just like to maintain the illusion that I am #1 - nothing wrong with that.  Without the feeling that there has been time for proper hygiene, I'm going to be unavoidably distracted wondering if there's a "secret indgredient" in the provider's hoo-ha while I'm giving DATY.  That may turn on some, but not I.

My preference is no more than one a day and once in a blue moon, two but they are spaced so very far apart.    I like to enjoy the time and make it enjoyable for the gentleman.  That can only happen when one is rested, fresh, hot & psyched for the approaching date.  Just my practice.  /M

Rule #1. Engage brain before trap moves!

I for one would rather the girl be honest with me and just move my appointment out 30 mins ect to give her time to get fresh for me. Most girls should know way ahead of time that they will be late for me. Even high volume girls that book with only 30 mins apart know that the client will be late and can call me to move mine 30 mins out to allow more time. Where the problem lies is girls that won't do that and I too have had that happen with one of my regulars....

Got to my appointment 5 mins early and sitting in the hotel parking lot and out walks this guy ...... middle aged.....hair kind of messed up and with a grin on his face and car has a local tag..Some of you know the look...LOL.....Now I wonder what he was doing there....LOL.....Made my call on time and she said she needed a few mins that she was just eating her sandwich.....Now come on.....why would you start eating your sandwich right at my appointment time.....LOL......she called back 5 mins later and said I could come up which was just 10 mins after I saw that dude leave. Normally I would have just left but I have seen this girl a long time so what I did was even though I had just showered ......when I got up there I asked her to take a nice sexy shower with me. Just did not tell her I wanted to wash that other dude off you.....LOL