It kind of related to the question below. I have seen in past times ads that says that no AA or Black Men or no Hispanic as well and etc.... I don't understand why providers that post it on their page make the distinction. Is it because they are afraid that they would be rob or what. Can anyone help me understand because it baffles me sometimes.

Just do a search. They are all the same, with the same answers month after month, year after year after year, after year.

Yea but after I read the post about the mixed guy looking for a provider that brings the same question about it.

If you see an ad on back-page that says Caucasian only respect her decision, it's her pussy.  

I agree with what you said.  However,  there are some who wondered about this. If a person puts this topic on Google then a person would discover the amount of people that ask this same question. Personally, I feel like you such that there are plenty of fish in the sea. If one won't see you, another eventually will.

When I first became a provider, the very first woman I contacted for client verification had this policy. I was looking her up and found her on BP. She had this policy stated in her ad. When I called her, we got to talking for a long while, and I asked her what was up with that. She said she's found Black men to be cheap hagglers, and she also found that they respected her body less than men of other races.

DISCLAIMER - I am an ethnic minority (and an obvious one) .. so, while not AA, I have experienced some of the same issues ... but don't think it's a big deal

I agree with that maybe their experience had caused them to do this. However, I would say that it is not good to judge people basically from the few of them that cause them mistreatment. I practice that do unto others as you would want them to do unto you. I do think that it's the modern culture of media perspective that paint a negative stereotype of minority culture. However, i don't like how the modern culture dress with their pants halfway down through their butt and etc.. I feel image bring a negative impact on race.

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I agree. From a business outlook you eliminate a market that has good potential. I mean any successful business you target a market and capitalize on it.  However,  there are several untapped market that has a  potential for growth. Like she said previously,  you have to screen to make sure that the person is good.

Considering that most hobbyists are white and over 30. Some ladies think by stating "No AA men" it makes them more attractive to their targeted demo.  

I see. However,  does it work?  What happened if the demographic that the provider seek doesn't want to see her? Will she tried to reach back to those she alienate?

For me when I see "NO AA men". I lose interest because the provider has some wrong ideas even through I am white.

I definitely understand that.  I guess they try to reach for the high bucks then lol

Believe it or not many provider also enjoy their work (at least in my experience). It could be that AA clients don't "do it" for them. We all have our preferences. I tend to see a type of provider and I will say I have never been with a AA provider. This is NOT to say I have not seen many such ladies that have raised my interest but it seems every time I decide to "take the plunge" I find another provider in my comfort zone and I get distracted. It has nothing to do with any dislike. I have never visited a Asian / K-girl either but I do want to try out those a waters also. I also am not a big agency user , preferring indys.  

I can definitely understand and respect that. I look at this as there are many angles that could cause this.

I often wonder if possibly the provider is either dating or married to a black guy and that might be the reason. It's ok as long as it is not another black gent.

That is a good question.  I know one that moved was in a relationship with a black guy. Maybe its a threat to him I guess.

Wow I agree wholeheartedly. I just felt sorry for the guy below. It's kinda made me curious about it.

Xena

So by that reasoning, a white dude is so dickless that he's practically a woman!  And why would a guy be worried about another woman having lesbian sex with his woman, after all, a lesbian can't give her dick, QED white guys are equivalent to lesbians...

If I see "no AA men", then I think, GOOD thing I'm not black!  Then I think, that's a smaller market, I'll probably have an easier time booking her!    

I'm dead center of this demographic.  Old married dude with kids, not AA.  

So you are suggesting that there are providers that get off fucking white dudes, asian dudes, indians, hispanics, american indians, Polynesians, and middle eastern dudes, AND all of those dudes can be any combination of fat, old, or ugly, but she just can't get an orgasm from a black dude? And therefore, they prefer not to book with them?

Since it's the same week as the National Black MBA Association convention in Atlanta guessing it's really two threads about those who do since it's the same names as always .  

It's important that a provider list these things. I once had an appointment with an agency girl that I was amped about seeing. Got there and she was everything I had hoped for. She directed me to the bathroom. I came out and while standing there completely naked she handed me the phone. The lady on the phone then told me that she doesn't see men of color. I was super disappointed and a bit hurt. The lady on the phone offered another girl but I just wanted to get out of there. The girl said when she saw her first porn it was a black man with a horse sized cock, so now she is afraid.  

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just their personal preference. In either case, best advice is to just keep it movin', imho...."NEXT!" Trust me, you don't want to see someone who is not happy to see you, hon.

About the first porno comment. I have heard stories like that with guys overseas during the Korean War. "No go can blackman to big", lol. One Korean provider I saw told me she would never see black clients when she first starting escorting. She took a chance and meet a nice one and loves to see blackmen now.

It is a re-occurring topic on the DC board. Seems like a Donald Sterling effect lol.

Xena= Hell Yeeeeeaaaaaahhhh!!!!!

My advice....keep it moving. This is a lady's choice and it really doesn't matter what you think. Instead of focusing on why a particular lady won't see you, find one that will gladly make your acquaintance. As many have pointed out, there are a million threads on TER about this. Some ladies won't see older guys, younger guys, guys that write a lot of reviews and so forth.

...just because there are so many on this with probably every reason for their anti-xyz minority policy.  *EO lover btw*

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