Life is too short for posts to be taken seriously. I didn't type this next part earlier but this is what got me started:
There's a mean spirited iPhone app called SECRET. The catchphrase is "Speak Freely" but it's use is basically cyber-bullying - if you believe in such things. I won't go into further detail but as the name suggests - it makes Trolling way too easy.
This AM, before I posted originally, a mid-teenage girl I know showed me some comments about her from this SECRET app. Since she is a minor... let's say the comments read like sound bites from the Juicy Details section of a review.
She was clearly upset as these comments were far from true. She then asked me for my opinion as a Man - who could be a father/grandfather/greatgrandfather (lol). Yep, she asked me the Loaded Question, but she's young, so she didn't know better. Why she came to me and not a relative, I don't know but people talk to shrinks and priests and school teachers too.
I told her that "Sticks and Stones may break my bones but Print can be really hard to ignore." I advised her to uninstall the app as it's a gossip board, not even as useful as Twitter. If any of her so-called friends says anything about what's posted on the app, then she should tell them that it's BS (full word) and she'd rather have friends that didn't read such BS. Anything worth saying about her should be said to her face or at least have a genuine name attached to it or be in a reputable source of info if it is in print. I told her to Unfriend, or just plain ignore those people who just wanna say hurtful stuff.
She thanked me then asked if I had an online name. I said "Sure, several, depending on the online forum." She asked why I didn't use my real name and I replied that it's fun sometimes to act like you're someone else, but regardless of the screen name I try never to say anything I wouldn't say in person as my true name. And so i was inspired to type the OP.
Knowing is half the battle, ga_kosh