I have been contacted by a gentleman that will remain nameless here.  (if you wanna know who and see the im please contact me privately)

He has threatened bad reviews.  He has been very nasty.  He also in the course of the conversation told me he had all day to ruin a woman (me) since he didn't have a job and was home all day.

It all started becasue on my site it says that if you have a fetish and I can't do it I might be able to find someone that could.

He wanted to take a woman to a glory hole place and have her suck what ever cock came thru and watch them cum on her.

I told him find a street walker.  

He got angry.  

I explained how dangerous that way and blah blah...

He then tells me how he has read my reviews and they talk of me doing bbbjtc   so he made comment to how things were obviously 'questionable'

I tried to explain that with this way of meeting that there was more safety.  

He then tells me how he has friends that do fake reviews of ladies.  To be aware that I would have one soon.  

This is just one more situation of how the review process fails us.  

Sorry just had to get it off my chest.

Heidi

Heidi I'm so sorry, you know not every hobbyist is a gentleman!  I had the same experience friday evening I wonder if it could possibly be the same person?  I asked this guy for his TER handle and he refused to give it too me so I just shrugged it off.  The only thing I can recomend is do not return any phone calls or email from this guy.  It's sad to say but eventually he will find someone else.

I think most guys realize that not every girl is for everyone. So a bad review wont be too bad unless a patern seems to form or you only have a couple of reviews. By your other reviews I'm sure most can tell what they can truly expect , and I wouldnt worry too much I've read your others and I can tell you are a class act and quality provider .

There are idiots born every day.  Jeesh what a jerk.

Don't worry Heidi, those of us who know you, know better. See you soon babe.

"A glory hole is generally defined as a small fist-sized hole between private video booths in an adult bookstore. It is placed about hip high for the average guy and is just large enough to place a man's penis through to let the person on the other side perform whatever sexual activity he pleases on it."

It is known fact that some of you ladies have good reviews and have established good reputation all the way around. With all that, some idiot calls and you'l get bend out of shape. Don't you think, it is like pouring gasoline on a raging fire!

Ignore the jerk, hang-up, do whatever you need to and by all means, don't let it spoil your day.

There jerks and idiots all the way around, if we let them get under our skin, we will be the loosers.

As the old saying goes.

You can fool some of the people all of the time
all of the people some of the time
but, you can fool all of the people all of the time.

Tirning that around:
You can please some of the people all of the time
all of the people some of the time
but, you can't please all of the people all of the time!

Think about it.

Keep your chin up and be happy

Well, if you know who it is and his phone number, you have some leverage.  I think your post here may alert him to the consequences of his following through on his (probably empty) threat.

has been wronged in such a manner by an unscrupulous hobbiest and protect her reputation.  Attempted blackmail is unforgivable and should never be allowed to impact a providers rules.  I believe that as long as a provider is up front and honest with the hobbiest and provides service as stated, we honest folks will stand by her.  In other words, don't let jerks like that intimidate you ladies.

Amen.

Heidi, you've seen me once, and I think ANYONE who has seen you knows that you are one of the most genuine people on the planet.  You take careful precautions, you are considerate, and you have good instincts.  This individual is a troll.

You shouldn't give him a second thought.

I really enjoyed making a new friend in you.

xoxo
HEIDI