are two pops on the table?  How bout someone who has seen you before who might be willing to compromise?.

I know that sometimes special arrangements are made for guys I see pretty often..

...but you have made a good point.

Hanna

1.Get yourself off 30 minutes prior to your session.  

2.If your a one and done guy book a 30min session. Most ladies will offer a half hour.

3.If your more than a one and done guy book a 2hr session. This will allow u to pop in 5 mins and still have time for more.

4.Don't believe what u read in reviews there is no way in hell these guys are fucking for 45 mins straight these ladies pussies are to skilled to allow such a thing.

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"I can get conversation for nothing. Do you really book appointments to talk ?????"

You can bust a nut for nothing too.

LF, i was on your side till this stupid comment.  If it's only about busting a nut to you, don't pay at all.

Yes, I'm using an alias because I'm embarrassed.
I"m sure I'm know among the providers as a quick pop. There's no doubt about it. More times than I care to remember I've "popped" as the lady was unwrapping the condom.
Just wondering why I pay the same thing as a hobbyiest that wears you out for 45 minutes (at least that's what their reviews say).
I know...I know.....we're only paying for their time anyway. It just doesn't take much time for me...LOL.
That's why 30 minutes is more than enough for me....hell, usually 15 is enough.
I'm sure I'll get blasted for this, but it is a legitimate concern.
Do ladies prefer guys that are great lovers and give them all they want....or guys like me ( I don't think I'm the only one) that are easy ?
I"m sure someone will respond that they prepare the same way ( make up, etc )....I'm just saying maybe it should be a factor.

I have the same issue depending on the lady. I will usually only stay for a half hour the first time in order to see how I feel around her, if I am comfortable, if it’s a rip off etc. Kinda like a working interview. I will state this upfront and be honest that I am only interested in a half hour because we haven't met. It covers me on both ends. If it’s a rip off or shady, I am in and outta there or if she is a mind blowing experience, I can go back or see if I can pay for a longer stay if that’s available.
Also, remember this is a locker room type situation and the ladies would agree for the most part, a lot of minute men are marathon runners when they are the authors...
The author always wins.


If I want to go back, I stay for longer so I can play more times.

it reads almost exactly like the post several months back

with the same silly theme

are you getting forgetful?

2 pops.....what a great memory....LOL. Maybe 30 years ago......

Your suggestions for this gentleman are great.

That being said and contrary to what you might think, there are one pop guys in this TER universe that can go 45mins without blowing there jizz too early.

I don't understand why this is a bad thing or so hard (no pun intended) to believe.

Sure, some stretch the truth (ok...a lot lol) but not all.

Sir Cumalot

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Have you considered spending the initial moments of your visit innocently chatting (keep non sexual at first) then gradually moving on to foreplay (exploring your providers body, caressing and kissing, etc.) so as to push the actual deed a bit by very gradually building up the sexual tension?

Is this the post you are referencing BB?  Not sure since that one started with an alias as well.

http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=155080&boardID=18&page=

And to the OP - I'm not using an alias and while I have never had anyone start the egg timer, I am sure there are many ladies that will attest that I am "easy."  And while it will crush my ego - sadly,   I gotta agree with them.  Fortunately, facts have never kept me from lying my ass off.  Besides, just like any hobby, there is always that exception that keeps ya coming back.

My best advice is to learn to savor the moment, expand and appreciate your own services and thereby enhance both of your experiences.  It also helps with delaying the inevitable.  But what the hell do I know - just another old dude who appreciates the attention of the fairer sex.

Not sure I understand the purpose of rehashing this topic, especially since LF gave two very good answers to his own question.  Add in lost opportunity costs and time invested to screen and that pretty much covers the bases.

like she did last time, hehe

Did you want some meaning ful conversation time too?!  Lol

I just think it's a topic worthy of discussion. Obviously, you don't...so don't participate.

I'm sure there is a sharp contrast in hobbiests. Probably some get more than their money's worth, some don't. I'd love to hear the ladies' take on it. I'm pretty sure there have been times when I left that they thought " wow, that was an easy 300".

Don't take it so personal bballs.

save the money and the trouble

Why is it such a big deal to you ?

I really fail to see where it concerns you in any way. Are you just someone that loves to tend to everybody else's business ? Maybe you ought to consider getting a life.

I can get conversation for nothing. Do you really book appointments to talk ?????

Look at my reviews for performance.  Almost all 9 and 10.  

It's because I give my clients ALL OF MY ATTENTION, even is some of it is before/after the actual session.

Being a top rated provider is never a fifteen minute event.

and visit my site for pictures:
http://www.eros-atlanta.com/files/207624.htm

Corey

Now about those performances....

There really is no such thing as an easy client.

All clients increase LE and health risks, for the provider.

All clients require screening, initially, which takes time/resources from the provider doing the screening.

All dates (even with the less demanding clients) require an investment into an incall space, advertising costs, make-up costs, transportation costs, screening time/costs.  

For me, when a client books one hour, I actually set aside about five to ten hours (total) of my time, depending on different factors.  Five hours for local clients.  Five to ten hours per client, if I am on tour.  So, even if he is "done" on the early side, it doesn't make a huge difference for me, because I put in a lot of time, money, and effort, beyond the actual time spent "in session."

"Do ladies prefer guys that are great lovers and give them all they want....or guys like me ( I don't think I'm the only one) that are easy ?"

I do not see guys for session shorter than one hour (for safety and health reasons), so it kind of doesn't matter what happens during sessions.  Having dinner and being behind closed doors; those are two things I enjoy, so I don't prefer one over other.  We can play musical chairs or jump on the bed until it breaks.  Either way, I am spending that hour with the client.  I am a naturally open-minded person, so it doesn't matter to me, what happens during the session, as long as the client has the greatest time.

So your hourly rate falls well short of minimum wage eh,  man now I feel so exploitive, almost railbaron tycon like, senior managerial executive, republican.   Oh wait, letmeee check, I AM.  Good my conscience is now clear I can continue to pfp without regrets

http://escortmojo.com/mojoimages/images/559Jacuzzi2.jpg

I enjoy this hobby a lot, and I am committed to it, but fifteen minutes (for a client) is never just fifteen minutes to the lady.

Just because I pointed that out, it does not mean I think the guys are a hassle.  

I put some elbow grease into my provider business, but that's fine for me, because I enjoy what I do.

I will admit reading reviews of 15 min sessions that are barely hj scoring 9 or 10 do piss me off.

We hobbiest do appreciate the creativity and attention you lovely ladies give us

Between "prostitution" and "The Hobby".

A true Hobbyist is a man who is looking for a fantasy experience with a lovely lady. He is willing to devote part of his time to things such as conversation, foreplay, experimentation, attempting to please and /or court the lady.

I cannot speak for the ladies, but I would imagine that it is very difficult to turn on and off like a faucet with desire, sexuality and caring. Just imagine, a guy walks through the door. He is the epitome of everything she finds unattractive in men. Yet if the guy takes some time to allow his personality to win her over he may still have a wonderful time, because she is now having sex with a human being and not just fucking some guy for money.

Now I am not saying that it is wrong to want to just go get a quick blowjob or just sport fuck for 30 minutes. All I am saying is that the ladies who present a great incall, put time into their appearance, physique, and really try to make sessions special are going to be in more demand with a "hobbyist" than with a street john who just wants to get his rocks off.

I for one would much rather pay a little more, have an hour, even though I typically don't use it all, to have a classy incall, a woman who seduces me instead of just drops her panties and spreads her legs or drops to her knees.  I want a woman who has taken the time for all the things the ladies need to do for personal hygiene, make-up, nails and outfits that make me go WOW when they open the door.

I understand feeling that because someone is a quick finisher or doesn’t finish at all, as I sometimes do, might feel disappointed.  When I first started to get ED, I struggled, but it was mostly my ego. Once I accepted that sometimes my penis wasn’t going to function as requested, I settled into enjoying the entire session and making sure that what I could do was enjoyable for the lady and me. I think I became less selfish in my sex. Well accept for the fact that I love DATY. LOL

Just my .02,

Pheonix

What can often be forgotten is the time it takes for a lady to prepare (shower, perfume, tidy up the place, etc).  A one hour appt may constitute 1.5 or 2 hrs of total time spent.