& because someone suggested I should be more active here. =)  
GUYS: what would cause you to NOT see a provider besides her donations and/or incall location?
LADIES: what would cause you to NOT see a client besides his screening and/or outcall location?

If her demeanor is that I'm doing her a favor by seeing her, and that I should feel humbled and honored, then I need to look elsewhere. I don't expect her to roll out the red carpet, or throw rose petals on the ground in front of me, but it would be nice if she just acted like she was looking forward to seeing me.

GREAT answer! Oftentimes, I hear it being said that some providers don't even TRY to act amused. That has to suck handing over or placing that envelope down after a "blah" of a greeting. =/

I have little reason to entertain the company of ANY who are rude, impolite or exhibit a total lack of grace whether they are a Client, another Shopper in the Mall or a Member of Family.  Life is too short and complicated to be subject to those who are totally insensitive to others. I enjoy witty repartee bordering on sarcasm but have no time for those who have little thought or care for what they say or do.  I always attempt to be gracious and careful in thought and action though I am direct and to some maybe blunt but NEVER insensitive.  Admittedly sometimes some of us just may not click and it often becomes obvious right away in first conversation or contact so my philosophy is to just dust it off and go on rather than continue a potentially uncomfortable contact for either of us.  Not just Clients by any means but it could just as easily be the appliance repairman and he could just as easily feel the same unease with me. C'est la vie.  Suzee xoxo

I absolutely agree with sailor66.  It's a fantasy, ladies, please at least seem interested in us gents. We want to be the center of your attention for the short time we are together.

I couldn't agree more about your points regarding communication.
I've passed over seeing quite a few ladies lately just because they didn't reply to my appointment request within 48 hrs.
I know you ladies have personal lives and all but so do we gents. Due to my job, I have to plan appointments a few days in advance and if I don't hear back from a lady after 24 hrs, I usually have to move on and find someone else.

Attitude is important.  I've introduced a couple of friends to our wonderful world of P4P and felt I couldn't possibly stress enough how important it is to be NICE.  Try not to behave as though you believe men should kiss the ground you walk on, because with that princess attitude, they'll quickly realize there are many more hot chicks to get laid by other than one who's got an attitude problem.  Plus, I go into sessions with high hopes for orgasms, and I'm not sure that would happen as easily if I felt like I was simply tolerating you and gracing just by my presence.  Be friendly, be fun.

if she is overly wordy in ads or convo I probs won't book.

If a guy is extremely rude, I don't want to see him. Even if screenings come back right. I just don't deal well with people who have no common courtesy in general. Even more so when it's a potential client.

They really are everything

Hey, great msg. & I did have a discussion with the client that suggested. I'm merely trying to gain POSITIVE internet presence. Not shy at all, just a bit new here and still getting adjusted. =)

You'll see a lot more of me, promise. =)

Great post!
A few things with apologies beforehand 'cause some of my answers may irritate.  

Thank you, and welcome to the board Miss Moore.  I think it is great that you are introducing yourself and getting some board presence here.  It's a good way for us guys and gals to get to know you a bit.  Thoughtful, interesting, and funny posts are always welcome around here.  Lord knows we need all we can get.  

That's a great post coming from a provider! I, too, have experienced most if not ALL of these things! Awesome response!

"I will beg for pussy;  I will pay for pussy - I will NOT beg to pay for pussy..."  Pretty much says it all....

+1

I have turned down a few guys lately for this reason. They want to mention some bullshit they "HEARD" Yes I have marched a few right out my front door lately too! Honestly I am pretty fed up with what people HEAR. Good grief! Get to actually KNOW someone and for fucksake I really don't care what people have HEARD about me LOL!
I just want to meet and fuck and be friends minus all the BS. If I had a dime for every time someone has said, cussed me or even met me just to see if things were true or not, based on what someone HEARD, Id be a rich MFer now lol!
Other than that, other reasons for not seeing a gentleman... being rude, smelling awful (if they refuse to shower, Here is your $ back and good luck on your search) and requesting BBFS. I have Female condoms and I am not offering BBFS.  Also being a haggler will get a guy turned down too.
This is a really good post and hopefully it will help some understand why they got turned down
Hugs and kisses
TL