if one is totally objective each hobbiest could only give a single 10 rating. As a newbie I kept getting blown away with experiences that were once in a lifetime when I first experienced them-- so I had several early on. Now, as an experienced monger, I'm not sure any once in a lifetimes remain-- but I easily fall into a state of forgetting it's service! As I recall, being discombobulated, forgetting the sequence of events, and being totally blown away by the experience is the common denominator of my 10 ratings-- and it was a combination of the chemistry, the action, and the corruption of my innocence that contributed to the general feelings of once in a lifetime.
I agree with you on the paradox of the term of "once in a lifetime." If taken literally then we would only have one "once in a lifetime" in our lifetime. Which should be obvious. But (in practical application) that award loses its value to others. As you would have to wait until your deathbed to make your final vote on your once in a lifetime, and by that time your hobby peers (and your once in a lifetime award winner for that matter) are likely too old to take advantage of such a claim. That's why the title in the TER sense is misleading. Or at least not overly helpful. IMHO.
What I should have said was... what makes an exceptional, unforgettable experience for you? What about a woman (or man - for the providers) haunts you (in a good way) long after you leave that session?
But you understood my meaning thankfully. 
And I liked your response. It is much the same for me - being the combination of chemistry, performance, and attitude. It's kind of a hard thing to quantify, that's why I thought it would be an interesting question for discussion.
It's kind of like asking "what makes the best the best?"
I have always thought that each member should be allowed to have only one 10 rating. IF he later finds someone else that outshines the original 10 he gave, then he could give a new 10, but that would automatically lower the earlier 10 to a 9.
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Any woman can give a man a ten if she wants too. The beauty is more so in the act of pleasing than in the physical beauty of the woman. A man has to do his part and perform in a manner that will turn the woman on. If a man is slack not knowing what his partner wants it will never make it. A hhr. or one hour quickie leaves no time to get a woman warmed up and would be suspect to be a top rated 10. You can tell in a good arrangement if the woman is really enjoying the date and having mutual orgasms usually multiple times. When a ten is finished both party's leave with a glow knowing they rang each other bell. I'm exhausted when I leave and feel like I have a glow around me. This feeling will last for days with me wanting to live the experience over and over again in my mind. Sometimes it is to the point you wonder if the woman could have fallen in love with me knowing it was just my fantasy.
I know what you mean about a glow. More so than the normal postcoital glow. There is almost an emotional or spiritual component to it as well. Also I liked your comment about reliving it in your mind over and over. One of the many things I like about the hobby is creating great memories that last a lifetime.
When I think back on an experience (as in reliving it) I ask myself "What could she have done to make the experience even more amazing?" and when the answer is "nothing" then that puts her at the top of my list. And to be fair I ask myself what I could have done to make it even better too. So, I also agree with your sentiment that it takes two...
I try and bring my best to the date as I know it helps the lady feed off my energy and enthusiasm. And horniness. LOL.
It's a very human thing to desire to be desired. And it can be that spark that gets the chemistry going. When you are both adding to each other's energy it can be pretty incredible.
Legendary is a hell of a title for a woman like this:
Predictably, I'd have to narrow it to a final few for a variety of reasons. But here goes.
Bella Sora: incredible mind. Could tune in and be wild PSE or sensual GFE with equal skill. Great ability and a wonderful woman. The mild-wild made her legendary in my world.
Terri of Atlanta: Purely a wonderful woman and add to that a very sexy woman with the most enthusiastic BBBJ and kissing energy I've met.
Ginger Taylor: we click, and she's genuine which is interesting to me because my first impression of her was a nice woman I didn't "click" with. Through communication and her remarkable attitude we not only have clicked a lot of different ways, she's legendary in my world.
Misty Rivers: redundant...read comments on Bella, Misty was equally remarkable when she was a provider. As an agency she's trustworthy and professional.
Reading these, attitude becomes the driving factor in LSLarry world!
Larry, I see qualities in the ladies in your list that I appreciate greatly as well - intelligence/creativity, enthusiasm, reliability, and professionalism. All of those qualities are things that I look for in a partner as well.
When you mix those qualities together and have a spark of chemistry - you will likely have an unforgettable experience.
And I also agree that an awesome attitude in bed beats just about everything. If I had to choose between looks and attitude, I would pick attitude every time.
Fortunately, living in this Promised Land we call Atlanta, we lucky gents can have both!
On top of the fact she is beautiful, fun, amazing, has a magical smile...I can't really explain it much more
10 all the way from the jump, never in doubt
I think you hit upon the important point. Sometimes we meet that special girl that "gets us." She just seems to know exactly what to do. She knows our buttons and loves pushing them. Whether that ability is natural (a born cock whisperer) or learned (great at reading body language) we guys don't seem to care. We just enjoy the experience
"Cock whisperer " I like that.
To me a "Once in a life time" event is a nonrepeatable event. This my problem with TERs definition of 10. If I see someone and consider either looks or performance "Once in a lifetime" I am either setting myself for 1. disappointment or 2. being wrong on a following visit ( I tend to be a repeat offender)
1. Her looks or performance are not quite as good, a bit of a disappointment.
2. Her looks or performance are as good or better, in either case making the declared "once in a lifetime" inaccurate.
Yes it is a bit picky but I tend to be a fairly literal person. (Say what I mean, mean what I say)
Now i would have no problem with "10" as a score on TER if it was defined as say "perfect". Perfection is repeatable.
$0.02
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Everyone has their own perceptions of a “Once in a Lifetime” experience that if achieved they will keep tucked away in the confines of their minds for safe keeping. While I haven’t been in the industry as long as others I have already found that how a man is greeted at the door can make or break the whole experience. I love to greet my gents with a big hug and kiss! I know some of them are just as nervous about me as I am of them and it has been my experience that the first kiss says it all! As we move out the entryway and towards the bed I get a feel for their body language because that is the most important indicator in their comfort level. If they are not comfortable then I won’t be either so I try to go with their flow and not my own. I don’t go over formalities…its redundant…most of my wonderful gents become more relaxed and begin to get comfortable at this point. This is the transition phase where the logical brain begins to shut down and the ill-logical, passionate, Fun loving, outgoing, brain who happens to be an Extreme marksman takes full control of their hormone raging masculine body.
Sometimes it can be a little awkward when it’s time for the clothes to disappear because we all have our little insecurities and want to give our best impression on a first time visit. This is where the giddy school girl in me comes out!! I try to lighten the mood with little cute, sexy jokes about my clasp getting stuck or how my bra and bust don’t always see eye to eye! I love hearing my gents chuckle and play along! I am too fun to be all missionary and mundane during my sessions! I try my best to provide a GFE experience that they will remember in their dreams for days! My gents need some laughter after a hard day work and seeing them loose and comfortable and smiling is all I need in order to show them just how much I appreciate them!! Now I would keep going…..but I don’t want to spoil it for the gentlemen who I haven’t had the pleasure of meeting! Kisses Devin
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...My gents need some laughter after a hard day work and seeing them loose and comfortable and smiling is all I need in order to show them just how much I appreciate them!!...
Miss Devin - now that is a classy post, and I couldn't agree more. Laughter is a great way to break the ice and relieve some stress. Well, that is... before the real stress relief begins. LOL. I do appreciate a woman who can turn an awkward situation into a funny one with the clever use of her tongue. But to be fair - I am appreciative of any woman who can use her tongue well... ;-
Well hi there! Thank you for the compliment on the post! Yes laughter has a tendency to ease uncomfortable situations. It's funny because when I was younger I would always smile if I felt uncomfortable or if I was in trouble with my parents. My mother would get so mad at me and more trouble for me would be the end result. As I got older I thought it would get better but it the same as always...make me uncomfortable and I smile. So I figured I would use it to help other people ease up around me. Oh and by the way.....I am very good with my tongue!
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Oh and by the way.....I am very good with my tongue!
Yes, Miss Devin - I am well aware.
I take my double entendres very seriously.
hey eDreaner, this thread in January had some great discussion on this.
I posted that a ten has to generally be more, look it over
When I have had ten, later that night, I will wake up in bed, the scent of my partner lingers on the sheets and the pillow, and I have this erotic memory/dream that makes me want to schedule her for more.
Can't always describe it, but I know when it happens. There is an order of magnitude between a 9 and an 8. The gap between a 9 and a 10 is even greater. It's all about the connection, the giving, the sharing, the engagement. It's all about the more
Advisor - thanks for pointing out that thread (which is quite good). You mentioned two things that interest me - the idea that the scale is logarithmic in nature, and that something "more" is involved.
Synergy is an overused buzzword - and as such, has lost much of its meaning. But I do think it applies in this case. It describes a process where the combined whole is somehow (miraculously) greater than the sum of its parts. I think of a "10" experience as something like that. When your energy plus her energy becomes greater than those two combined. That's amazing. You have a positive feedback loop that can set the bed on fire. That's chemistry. Now that's "more."
I recently had an experience where I could have sworn the lady was reading my mind. Except - that isn't possible. Is it? When someone acts so similar to how you want (hope?) them to act you get a deja vu feeling. And the encounter takes on a dreamlike, timeless quality.
When the fantasy in your head is met (and even exceeded) by the intensity of the actual events - that's what I call a "10". That's perfection.
PS: What's an eDreaner?
Most importantly, one must have a mind for the lady to read, 😂
Second, it was a shorthand on your name, you are out in your own, wonderful realm, I admire it, so the shorthand came to me while lisrening to dream weaver, and responding to you, your name became eDreamer. No offense intended
All your points on chemistry, magic, etc, I totally agree with
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Advisor,
Well then, I am honored and I wear your nickname with pride. Daydreaming is a great pastime of mine.
In fact one of my favorite quotes by Poe is:
"Those who dream by day are cognizant of many things which escape those who dream only by night."
Posted By: Advisor2008
Most importantly, one must have a mind for the lady to read, 😂
Second, it was a shorthand on your name, you are out in your own, wonderful realm, I admire it, so the shorthand came to me while lisrening to dream weaver, and responding to you, your name became eDreamer. No offense intended
All your points on chemistry, magic, etc, I totally agree with
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My first couple reviews I was more strict with the ratings until I unlocked VIP and saw how everyone else rated. I now take the 1-10 for appearance with a grain of salt and look for more consistent descriptions on how they look since all the girls I have seen have blurred headshots.
For service, other than hitting on the key menu items it really is YMMV, the one 10 I have given was fully deserved due to not only the experience I personally received but how we connected and have continued to do so since my 1 and only visit. It was the most fun Ive had in awhile.
I think you said the most important thing - "how we connected."
That's what it's all about, isn't it?
She's so tough, my knee's a little rough
From crawlin' on across her floor
If she'd place an order I'd drink her bath water
And not even use a chaser
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Apologies to Gibbons\Hill\Beard
Well now that you mention it... I am a tush man.
Good thread.
I had one a couple years ago, but couldn't rate it a "10" due to TER's guidelines. Here is what made it 10 worthy. First off, she was very pretty, and had the best body I've ever had sex with. Great real breasts. She was a phenomenal kisser. We kissed for 10 minutes to start. Then, the best oral sex ever!! I had no idea it could get so good. She seemed to be enjoying everything as much as I from start to finish. All of the pacing was perfect. When we moved to intercourse it was more perfection. The only problem was I only had an hour. So . . .
The next time I booked two. Everything like before, but we had a certain comfort level that made it even better. Long kissing. Great oral sex. A little kinkiness at the window where if anyone was looking up to the 15th floor they'd have had an interesting view. Absolute no holds barred intercourse with loud verbal encouragement and orgasms. Then talking and getting to know about her growing up near Atlanta. Shower, get ready to go. More long kissing near the doorway at the 2 hour mark. She notices I'm more than a little excited. Pulls me back to the bed, tears my clothes off and hers. We have more intense sex and loud orgasms.
That was my once in a life time. Have seen her again a few times and will some more. Always great, but that was the pinnacle.
Please tell who-- don't leave us hanging.
Lol - I'll second that.
Sounds amazing!
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Please tell who-- don't leave us hanging.
