The last time I had a civilian girlfriend that experience did not involve showing up once or twice a month for an hour or two at a time and trying to get off as many times as I can during said time soooo.....

If you are really looking for the GFE,  where are you going for lunch or dinner with your companion?  Do you try the high end steakhouses Mortons, Hals, etc.... or maybe Nikolais roof, Panos, The Palm.... or maybe business casual like capital city or Joey D?  Maybe more casual like cheesecake factory or magiannos  

I like Asian food.... like Buford highway Asian food, where you may need a passport.   But I dont think those are good for a first date.

I'm just looking for ideas here from suitors and companions,  what have you tried, what do you like?

I think it really depends on the provider. I tend to go with the more casual spots so we can laugh, talk freely,and really get to know one another.  If shes against those type of places and only wants high end then we won't be a good match anyway.  Sushi is always good.  

I will always ask what they like.  I have yet to meet food I did not enjoy.  I also agree that too much high end stuff is generally a turn off for me.  Although I did take cooking classes at Nikolai's Roof several years ago that turned out awesome.  

Discuss this with your new gf's . I'm quite sure you can agree on something. But, who doesn't love Chinese food.  

LOL, I don't think anyone is breaking down the door for Chinese food right now.  I discuss it with women I am taking out.  I had just hoped to get some ideas from others.

Welcome to Atlanta soon for a visit PenleyDuke.... if I saw correctly on twitter

If you know the provider, you can take her to a foot massage in Buford Hwy. They are great and put you in the mood too.

As a mature woman who ENJOYS her dates (very rare in this LS of faking it)

I am not of the belief that GFE means you ought to feel (expected to wine & dine your date at some place expensive)
Fine dining does NOT equate GFE)

No.  GFE. Is a true experience you have with your date where's there's NO expectations of grandeur. She UNDERSTANDS your kink, your wanton taboos. She fulfills those needs and she in turn is ENJOYING herself with YOU. Without a show of expensive dining.  (It's nice...but clearly not what makes a true GFE date between the two)

It's all about that connection and uninhibited erotic passion during that time you are together.  

Shaft1

In my opinion  and life experience,  a "girlfriend experience" generally involves more personal interaction than a traditional provider, courtesans, companionship or escorts offers. There is a focus on not just having sex, but also having more of a comprehensive experience.
I believe, In a romantic friendship, to be sensitive caring partner. Creating a good arrangement including a balance of fun and exciting experiences. In a great arrangement, there's also a sense of true friendship and connection that develops over time as two people get to really know each other, who is highly expressive and who communicates well, both verbally and non-verbally. Shared values must include commitment to mutual understanding, personal integrity, discretion, honesty and sincerity.  
AndreaGrey

That  a GFE session for me had to include dinner or any type of meal.   I guess I was trying to say that for me their needs to be a connection beyond what my favorite position is, if I am going to achieve a GFE.  After the experiences I have had with civi girlfriends I really prefer a FE, just a friend experience.  Which means to me on a beautiful day like today, we might meet up at 10 for a hike up kennesaw mountain then have lunch and play time.  Maybe one night in the week we could go to TopGolf or to the firing range then dinner.  Things I would normally do with a friend with the exception that the companion would be paid.  This is all just my opinion and no where near right or wrong for anyone else