Does it bother you ladies when guys insert a finger or thumb in your ass without asking first?  I have read plenty of reviews where guys say they put their "thumb  in and she didn't seem to mind," so I was wondering how the ladies felt about that?

For me I guess it depends on if I've already done that to him or not....lol

....finger in my vag before bothering to see if I actually like it there's going to be a problem.  Most who like to stick their hands all in your mouth and snatch didn't cut their nails or wash them carefully either and those are the ones who've watched too much porn who want to finger-fuck you to death because they think it's hot. I've even had gents who swore they looked over my profile try their luck and i had to quickly grab their hand or yell out because i felt it coming in not so-subtle way "no fingers".....no rarely comes out my mouth but I don't like FIV at all. Oddly enough a FIA (more like fingertip unless I know more is coming) feels just fine.  And it's not crazy for a lady to not like FIV but love dick lol it just feels different. Dick is great (usually) and fingers just feel like....fingers.

I've wondered the same thing also but assumed many reviews embellish the truth a little bit.

a cock feels MUCH better!  The finger nails can hurt and not all you guys trim like you should. IF you want to put a finger here OR there please guys make sure your hands are VERY clean and nails are trimmed. Remember the more fun I am having, the more fun you will have.
Hugs and kisses
TL

Touché or is that tushie

"Gliding your finger around the area lightly is a way to "ask" in a non-verbal way. She will let you know."

So well put!!  

She is all into what I am doing to her. UsuallY if I am going down on her and she
Has mY fingers in her pussy she will welcum the patented thumb rub of her rosebud. Lol
But remember what Meena tells us. Respect her boudries. Lol

I don't think I would stop you