Oh, you meant when the WOMAN fakes an orgasm. My bad. lol

I'm sure most men have been with women who have faked it, some are better at in than others. It's not really that big a deal to me except when it is "over the top fake", that is a little off putting to me, but I have no "horror stories" on the subject. lol

I will say that a woman who fakes an orgasm thirty seconds after we start is about as big a turn off as a woman who starts moaning "cum for me baby" thirty seconds into a session. Neither of them do a thing for me.

But,  when , at times, she was really in the mood,not fake, it was real and a memory never to be forgotten.  But most of the time it was her being just there for you and it was a good fake if there is such a thing.  LOL

I have found that the "little white lie" of faking an orgasm is sometimes easier and kinder than having to explain to a young lady that "it isn't her" and that at 52 years of age, I can't cum five times in a day that includes 20 hours of drinking as well as several different ladies. lol

The alternative is to go at it for another two hours that at some point stops being fun for either of us in a futile effort to get that "last pop" Sometimes rolling over and going to a very contented, and well earned sleep is much more satisfying and enjoyable than chasing the dragon of a fifth or sixth pop. At least it is at my "advanced age" lol

It's always kind of a bummer.  I think guys who've been doing this for a while can tell.  You develop a sense over time.  Of course, with some women there is clear, juicy proof, but with many the signs are much more discrete.  Some women definitely use that to their advantage and with some of the stories I've heard I can hardly blame them.  

Gals who are newer to this tend to do it more as do younger gals.  I'm good, but unless you've been letting it build up for a week I'm not good enough to get you off in 30 seconds.  (nor do I think you'd want me to).

I prefer an authentic experience.  Not all sex needs to lead to orgasm.  Even for me.  So if it's working for you great.  If you need an adjustment or something slightly different let me know.  If you want me to keep going just say so.  Just don't fake it.

Not saying you did Bella, but it happens more than you know...

...wood

And, it is quite a big distraction that's sort of counter productive to what the girl hopes to achieve... I think...  I'm assuming all the BS moans ten seconds into whatever is intended to encourage the guy to get his thing done, but actually it's such a distraction knowing that whatever she is moaning about ain't because of anything I've done in the first ten seconds... LOL ...  And the classic is constant rythem that goes sort of MMMMMMM, wait five seconds.... MMMMMMMM .... wait five seconds..... etc..... and after about 45 seconds.... Ohhhhh, Ohhhhh, I'm cumming...... are you close..... MMMMMMM

LOL .... Now when confronted with a girl who actually wants hers and isn't the slight bit interested in all the fake crap, there is absolutely no doubt when success is achieved.  My personal belief is that these non fakers are also the ones who are not clock watchers, not greedy, and more in tune with the true meaning of GFE....

I can only imagine the process to get a federal grant to do such a study. The worst part about it is, I believe you, and I believe there is such a study.

Is there such a thing? I'm positive every woman I've ever had sex with has had an orgasm or several!! lol

But seriously, I had this happen recently - not so much the fake orgasm as the fake moans and sighs of pleasure. Obviously fake since they weren't convincing at all, it was very mechanical and transparent. I guess it beats deliberate indifference, texting a friend or balancing a checkbook while I pound away, so faking is better than not bothering at all. At least let me sustain the illusion that you're having a good time. Like role-play, you're not REALLY that nurse/secretary/schoolgirl/domina/slave/housewife/slut - a good acting job isn't the real thing, but it's better than a bad acting job or not trying at all.

Three cheers for the REAL orgasm, the unmistakable one when you know you absolutely stuck the landing.

There used to be a very well known AA provider who ran her own Agency.
She was very bad about faking it,at least she was with me!
I put up with it,because I did not want to make a big deal about it.

Yes, yes,   no fake "O" from this hot lady.  I do not believe you had to get any toys out when I was there.  And, yes, please and be pleased should always be everyone's goal.  Interesting topic!

to believe they really gave a woman an orgasm!

Especially the guys with ED

YES,you are correct sir!!!

well they have been fucking us for decades!!

If a guy needs a bit of help bringing me to a climax, I will involve toys  or give subtle direction as to where to lick or stroke (lots of oohs, ahhs, don't stop or right there type of stuff).  I can say that I have been pretty damn fortunate to have dates that DATY with clit master skills (will put any lezzie to shame) and I haven't faked.  

I love sex, being pleased and pleasing and it's no fun if both of us don't cum!

AF

Yes!  I am very orgasmic also!  After a good DATY session to get the big one out of the way I keep going like the energizer bunny! What's the most you've had during sex? So far I have had 8 in one steamy session.  *Really horny and hadn't had any in about 3 weeks.

AF

Better than some of the things the damned idiots waste my tax money on...