I'm sure some providers consider it a waste of time (and I'm sure it is sometimes), but some of you are great at it. Some not so much. It's led to several great encounters for me. Because of the "Chat with Provider" feature alone, I've had sessions with 4 or 5 different ladies. Very few Atlanta ladies utilize it, though. There are always providers from LA and Vegas on there. It's interesting when I pm a provider to express my interest. Some are all business, those are the ones I don't follow through and see. But, others are really terrific at flirting via pm's. It really builds excitement and leads to great sessions.
Just thought I'd throw that out there. Thanks for your time to read it.
agree 100%. When I was more active (5yrs ago, or so) I would IM on Yahoo w/ 6-8 providers on a daily basis... For me, sex is sex & fucking is fucking... but chemistry makes the difference. I want my time with to mean more than a 2-4pm appointment (at least to me). I put a much greater value on connection than I do busting a nut. I can do that myself or can pretty easily find a Civie to help do that. I hate the feeling of dropping $450 (or whatever amount) for a so/so appointment.
I don't mess around w/ TER chat too much because local providers are rarely, if ever on there. And IMO, if you can establish something before hand, it heightens my anticipation, no question. I also get, that from a provider's prospective....it's safety first (in addition to wasting time) and they may be reluctant to go there. But when you find it....it's good
And then sometimes it starts off so great. And then when it gets time to close the deal, it falls apart. Maybe one or the other gets cold feet and it just doesn't feel right. Sad, but it happens.
But when it does work, the anticipation is so much fun and really adds to the experience.
Your point about chemistry is right on. ALL the ladies I will see again were willing to INVEST the time to write back to an initial inquiry, answering a question or two, asking me a question or two, and generally coming across positive and upbeat. ALL the ladies I will see again sent me a short email after the time and said thank you. ALL the ladies I will see again will engage in a little email/PM banter from time to time. ALL the ladies I will see again actually have read my Pro411e.
The baffling thing to me is why ladies do not take five minutes right after I have left, or five minutes the next day to send me a short, personal thank you email, or at least within a few days? I try to see low volume (whatever that is) providers. So, unless they were insincere when they said they wanted to see me again, why not augment the chances with a nice email?
I realize that: a) providers have personal lives, b) that they are sometimes flooded with emails and requests, and c) whatever excuse one wants to give for a lack of manners. What are we here......Yankees?
Inquire about a car via email or in person. Then watch the follow up you get--all in the spirit of "what can I do to get you in this car?" I guess in the hobby spirit we'd say "What can I do to get you between my thighs?"
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