This is one of the most under-rated aspects to a provider session.  Does having 2 pops in a session make that provider special?  If you don't pop at all, does that mean you had a bad session?

Hmmmmmm. . . . . .

I kind of think the obsession with multiple pops is a bit silly.

The "purpose" of a provider session is an memorable, erotic experience with no strings attached (well, maybe purse strings). If all that matters is "popping" then a one would do well to stay home and masturbate for an hour... probably 2-3 pops easy and you save a lot of money.

Sometimes I want more, sometimes not. If activities continue after the first pop, and the client is aroused again, then I think it is good for the provider to accomodate with another round, because it is good for the client AND its good for the provider because it makes the experience more memorable: happy customers are repeat customers.

The only hard rule is that if you pay for an hour, you should get an hour. The provider should charge for time, not orgasms... if its 40 minutes into a session and the client wants another go after the first pop, its poor form for the provider to upsell.

But as far as multiple pops being a matter of policy, I am not sure how much that matters.

O.

I agree with you to a certain extent, but I quess I am usually a little dissapointed if I only have one pop. Maybe I think I need two to get my moneys worth. But the quality of the experience is definately more important.

Wind

I have to agree with the previous comments. I absolutely agee with POPS being overated. I also think, providers also overate POPS, sometimes just to get you out of there. If you pay for an hour, you should get an hour, whether you POP or not.

Like Ozy said, if POP's are the only criteria, you can save lot of money by putting in Vidoe or CD and masturbating to your hearts content.

I think there is more to seeing someone than just Popping and if the person is nice, attractive, confident, having fun, and treats like person, etc.  This is waht chemistry is all about and creates a better overall experience than simply counting the number of pops.

Tippu

I don't ever, ever ask for multiple pops, but sometimes if the chemistry is right, it just happens. There are also a couple of really special ladies who pretty much insist on it...a good time had by all!

I too agree with Cheetahluv. Sometimes the chemistry is there and a second or third pop just happens. But who are these ladies that insist on a extra rounds?

Nikki/Kenya, Heidi Mueller and her sidekick Mandy are some that come to mind immediately.

Having had the (multiple) pleasures of all three, I can honestly say if you haven't experienced all of them, you haven't experienced some of the most fun you can have with your clothes off - of course!

As with all things, YMMV, but there are some lady's who offer service "up to an hour". These are mostly semi brothels and agencies. There service is based on the minute you pop, they are heading out the door or turning the shower on for you to get ready to leave. They are basically in it for the dollar and I hate those. Basically those types of people should offer a 30 minute session because both parties have the understanding that the only objective is to get the guy off and gone.

I will ask a lady if her service is up to an hour or for the full hour. I ask this not in anticipation of multiple pops, but more so if I am going to be rushed. Call me stupid but I actually enjoy spending a little time before jumping straight into things.

Now what I find as being a more recent trend is that lady's are more willing to offer a second bang. I think many lady's are not as jaded as in the past. Four or five years ago it was next to impossible to get a lady to offer you multiples. If the guy brought up the question, then she would offer a price for the additional bang if she was willing.

I remember the first time I got a second go. After the first bang I was obviously still at full mast and the lady noticed and said she thought it was a compliment that I was still excited and proceeded to ring me again. I remembered leaving that session like I had just won the lotto because it was so unexpected and again the trend at that time, even from good providers was one bell and gone.

I greatly appreciate more "runs at the goal" (I use to live in Europe), and it does raise the experience in my mind as well as my opinion of the lady, but it is not expected, but GREATLY appreciated.

I will say to guys who expect and demand seconds or thirds; you guys should also keep in mind the time you are spending and try not to go over. Some guys get greedy and want another go round and only have 1 minute left in the session. If that is the case he should be willing to compensate the lady for the extra time since he is going over.

If you pay for an hour, typically that includes your undressing and wash-up time so pace yourself accordingly, don't get greedy, and enjoy the experience. If multiples are an issue for you, I don't see anything wrong with expressing that desire before you get started.

Well said. You have company, I am the same way, like little preliminaries before jumping in.

I also hate the semi brothel mentality, atmosphere and attituse as well.

Tippu

I totally agree.  I really enjoy talking with someone first rather than just jumping into things.  It's nice to relax with the company of a nice gentleman and a glass of wine, get to know one another a bit, and then go on to the festivities of the hour... If getting to know someone takes more than an hour, then that's okay.... I'd personally rather run over then I would to not offer the best experience that I can and have the most fun that I can have at the time.....

Just my .02.

Jaclyn

I agree.

What ever happenned to mutual staisfaction or a hobbyist wanting to please a lady?

Sometimes I don't know short stories, but I appreciate a lady who listens and spends some time to break the ice.

Making sure that you are aware of your mates needs, arousing and pleasing her is very satisfying and leads to a much better experience IMHO.

If the provider and hobbyist take the time to satisfy each other the number of pops becomes less significant in the grand scheme of things.

Remember, it takes two to tango. Don't be selfish!



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I agree with that.  I am all for mutual satisfaction.  The ladies that have seen me can attest to it.  I am not one to demand multiple pops, because frankly, that can not always be accomplished.  The gas runs out of the engine, so to speak.  But if multiples happen, then all the better, but it is not expected.  The company of the lady is the most important thing.

I would disagree. Mutual satisafaction?  Who's paying who here??

IMHO, The whole focus on who pays who is the problem. One is not buying a person but enjoying the human touch and company. Does anyone agree that, it is more satisfying when the hobbyst and the provider treat each other human beings with respect, passion and sensitivity? Afterall we are all people having fun. Would very much like to hear from providers and hobbyists!

Tippu

i am a young guy (24 yrs. old) and i have 2 or 3 pops in me at any given point.  i have recently started to look for ladies that offer the multiples because in an hour or 2 hours i might be able to go 2 or 3 times and that, to me, makes the whole experiance more enjoyable.  i love it when the provider stops and talks to me while stroking my johnson in between sessions.  it strokes my ego very much giving more confidence in other areas of my life.  just my .02.

go ahead and flam me.

I don't think your comment warrants a flame. If you break it down, given the choice of only one pop or multiple, throwing everthing else out the window, it would be a landslide that most guys would want multiples. I don't even think that is a question. I think we look back on those experiences as being more enjoyable.

The thing to consider is what is important to you. If you really click with a lady, you might find yourself spending a good portion of your time on other things getting laid. The bottom line is if you expect it and it doesn't happen then you set yourself up for disappointment no matter how good the other aspects of the session were. If you don't expect it and it happens you feel like king kong.

Bottom line is don't put un-due pressure on yourself or the lady. If you go with the flow of the session things will work out. If the lady just isn't into you, regardless of if you are paying or not, the session will be bad and she will send you packing quickly. Just because you are paying for it doesn't mean you can act like a butt or demand anything under the sun. If you are too arogant and agressive, the chances that your session will suck is really high.

Trust me, the lady's don't need anybody's money that bad because this is the world's oldest profession and there is a reason for that. Paying for it doesn't mean you don't have to act like a gent.

Yes, multiples are appreciated, perfered, but should not be expected.

I agree to some degree, but remember, you are paying to be with this lady.  You don't want to lose that perspective.

Sorry juno2002, no name calling.



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