Atlanta

How is everybody holding up?
Madison_Ohare See my TER Reviews 1191 reads
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I reached my breaking point today and just started crying.  Yes, I was feeling sorry for myself but it was like everything finally caught up to me as I go in to year 2 dealing with Covid.  I realized I was alone today, at rock bottom.  I thought about how much I missed my father.  He passed away at 51.  I'm going through things I've never been through and there is nobody to ask how to do this!!  I was never taught how to go to the bank and ask for a line of credit, or 90 day loan.. I'm procrastinating, depressed and isolated.  But hey I been at rock bottom before in my life, abandoned.  The only thing about rock bottom, it's a motivator to get myself out of bed to handle things in the daytime!  I've thought about emailing some of my regular clients that I haven't seen in over a year.  Maybe offer them a bonus if they prebook and kindly give me a deposit; until I get out of this rough patch.  Next week, my Nashville man will see me for 2 days.  But my credit card is maxxed.  I lost all my regulars this past year with Covid.  Any suggestions from others?  How are yall doing?  This is the hardest year of my life!  I am so over it!  I've been approved for vaccine March 8th.  I will starve to death waiting on the gov $1400.  Big Love, Maddie

If this isn't allowed for discussion, then kindly delete.  Thank You TER friends

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ValdostaKid 21 Reviews 97 reads
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you are having a difficult time, it sucks and it especially sucks if you are doing it alone.  I wish my Dad were here to bounce ideas and suggestions off of also.  I think most anyone who is honest with themselves has had a tough time the last year... maybe finances, relationships, lack of relationships, politics, your friends politics, it has just been shitty.  I am a financial planner (25+ years), I have a surprisingly large group of clients that I refer to as my financial wives and they mostly refer to me as their financial husband..... they call about buying or leasing a car, inheritances, moving, vacations, remodeling house, basically anything they would normally talk to their partner about, they just don't have a partner.  Of course all that is easy to say and hard to find someone like that and I am not wanting to make light of your situation.  I'm sorry you are down and I sincerely hope things turn around for you soon.  

Another thing about hitting rock bottom is there is something solid (the bottom) to push off of

mo414 44 Reviews 86 reads
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I know exactly how you feel. I received some good advice. Think of the one thing or person who when you think of it or that person your heart gets filled with joy. I am very lucky I have a niece and when I think of her all my stress goes away. I hope you have someone like that in your life.

darrytay7 71 Reviews 105 reads
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When things go wrong, as they sometimes will,
when the road you're trudging seems all uphill,
when the funds are low and the debts are high,
and you want to smile but you have to sigh,
when care is pressing you down a bit - rest if you must, but don't you quit.

Life is queer with its twists and turns.
As everyone of us sometimes learns.
And many a fellow turns about when he might have won had he stuck it out.
Don't give up though the pace seems slow - you may succeed with another blow.
Often the goal is nearer than it seems to a faint and faltering man;

Often the struggler has given up when he might have captured the victor's cup;
and he learned too late when the night came down,
how close he was to the golden crown.

Success is failure turned inside out - the silver tint of the clouds of doubt,
and when you never can tell how close you are,
it may be near when it seems afar;
so stick to the fight when you're hardest hit - it's when things seem worst, you must not quit.

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