Curious if anyone can recommend a dominant provider that could handle some mild BDSM? I'm not looking to be beaten or whipped, more of a control and stern type thing. This is something that I have found to be truly rare unless you go with a pro dominatrix, but then you lose the other fun stuff  
So far in all the years I've been in this hobby, I've only found one provider that actually delivered in this regard and unfortunately she was touring. Someone like Hextyn would be amazing, but I'll have to wait until I win the lottery before I can see her.
BTW, I can't see PM's at the moment.