Masturbating the day before or the day of the appointment in hopes of lasting longer or laying off completely days (maybe even a week or longer) before in hopes of a big "explosion" ?

If you tend to be a bit "quick on the draw" then rubbing one out prior to a session might help you last longer. If you have no problems in that regards, then abstaining from ejaculating for a few days will result in a bigger load. Up to a point that is. I notice that I get a "full load" after about three days of no sex, anything after that the difference is minimal, and all it does is make me grumpy.

Truth be told, I can't remember the last time I jerked off. I also can't remember the last time I went more than 2-3 days without sex though. I will admit that on occasion I will abstain from sex for a couple of days on purpose if I know I am seeing someone who likes to swallow. I don't really care how big a load I shoot into a condom, but I love the feeling of shooing a really big load into a willing mouth.

Cum twice!  Fuck her for the first shot.  Have her give you a bbbjtcnqns for round two.  This will make you happy!

it depends on what you want to do.. if the lady allows multiples, why bother deviating from your usual routine.  If you're a one and done kinda guy..then it's completely different.  You just have to do what works for you.

You would have to pop a few times just to get me off lol  
Maybe you could book a longer appointment??  
Either way I hope you have fun
Hugs and kisses
TL

That would solve a lot of problems if possible....LOL

I am obviously new to this.  Where or who can I find that swallows?  and about how much would that cost me?

You can use the TER search function. Search for: USA, Atlanta, uncovered blow job, and swallows. I just ran this search and six of the girls I've seen we're on the first page!  I love these girls!  Good luck.  Send a PM to me if you have questions.  Or, look at my reviews. All the girls from Heidi Mueller on meet your criteria.