Ginger Taylor is wonderful, and very sweet.  She's very knowledgeable, I'm sure she wouldn't mind at all if you threw her a few questions.

In many ways she mentors hobbyist as well.  Wisdom combined with contacts combined with a genuine caring for people.  Ginger is one of the elite few that stand out to both sides of the hobby.

I'm Lisa Wang's Protegee

She taught me a lot of the ropes before and after visits.  I was open to everything before I met her; however she showed me how to truly enjoy it.

Man...

God I've wanted to try and find a girlfriend and bigger sister in this industry. A friend I could gossip with , learn from each oter with ad even do amazing duos with. It can be very lonely since none of my friends do this. I specialize in bdsm as well and have not met anyone since I don't know how to approach girls. It's so akward to approach girls here even since some just don't reply back.  boards help a lot!