Men do you know that Woman constantly ask themselves, Does he really love me? Does he really care?
How does she measure that love? How does she know she's truly cared for? Is it in the bedroom? NOT! If anything turns off a woman, it's the feeling that all her husband, (or BF) cares about is sex. If a wife thinks her main role is to be a willing recipient of her husband's sexual advances, she feels demeaned and disrespected.
Men, if your attitude has become, Well, honey, are you gonna put out tonight or not? you don't realize how much you're missing. With that attitude all you're going to get-at best-is an accommodating wife, but never an eager one.
What warms a woman up is when her husband helps around the house, picks up after himself, helps with the children, makes arrangements for dates, and overall cares for her. If a husband CONSISTENTLY (not just during the day for hopes of getting some that night) and graciously does this without acting like a martyr, he's going to find, seven times out of ten, that his wife is ready and eager to enjoy an active and fulfilling love life. It will be a natural response to a lifestyle of sincere affection.
Women, this might surprise you, but even more than your husband wants to have sex with you for his own sexual relief, the truth is, he wants to please you even more than he wants to be pleasured. It might seem like it's all about him, but what he really wants, emotionally, is to see how much you enjoy the pleasure he can give you. If he fails to do that, for any reason, he'll end up feeling inadequate, lonely, and unloved.
Most men want to please the primary woman in thier life. When sex dies in a marriage, a man loses something very important to him-theknowledge that he can please his wife physically. And a woman loses the satisfaction that she has a man who is enthralled with her beauty.