This is a message for both providers and hobbyists. I am noticing posts where hobbyists and providers are consumating sessions BB.  Is it me or are some of our providers for lack of better word  "tainted." If so why aren't they taking proper precautions, I understand that there is some assumed risk. But I expect a provider to be just as responsible as I am.  I would love for the usuals to post a response they have alot of experience.

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Reangerous business

I have not read too much on providers doing BB, but I am not really sure where your concerned if you are covered perhaps you're going BB?

I for one amd very careful and clean, and I am sure most of the Ladies here are as well.  I don't know what type of girls would just BB with anyone.

Just My 2 cents.

Kisses,
Monica

Reangerous business

I think you may be misreading something,while some may go BB for oral no provider or hobbyist I know that would go BB for main event, or worse greek, it just way to risky.

Reangerous business

No I am not going bb with anyone.  I've just read reviews and a couple of posts from a couple of months ago and realized bb is more prevalent than I once thought.

Second, even if am I am covered there is still a slight chance of me becoming tainted. Therefore if I go to a provider who is covered all the time my chances and her chances of becoming tainted are greatly reduced.  Remember you can be covered and still get certain things. Just want you and I to be safe that's all

Reangerous business

hmm...
Well I suggest you don't pick up any Ladies in bars then you never know they have been with.  

I am not trying to attack you hun, really, I just personally think providers are safer then most people you could pick up in a bar.  I am sure there are more providers that would never admitt to have gone BB, and those who do I can only hope that its someone they have been seeing for awhile and someone that they know.  You also have to remember that most of our clients are married (slims chances down).

If you are having issues with it then all I can suggest is to get out of the hobby or get to know a provider you like.

Hope I have been some help.

Kisses,
Monica

Providers see multiple guys in a week, often a day. It is well documented on one of the boards which providers have offered unprotected sex to some "faves". I don't feel it is any more of a risk meeting a classy girl at a bar than seeing a provider. In fact, I would bet it is much less of a risk as far as catching a sexually transmitted disease.

Reangerous business

I have seen this issue come up several times and am still puzzled. Although I see everyone talk about the dangers of
BB it seems that no one seems to have problems with DATY.
Let's face it, if you absolutely want to be safe, abstinance is your route (doesn't work for me ). It seems like almost every guy I see posting on the boards is looking for BBBJTC and a lot like DATY. Don't get me wrong, these are high on my list too, but come on, if you are going to participate in these then BB really is not more dangerous then these.

Reangerous business

I cant say I have a lot of experience,
but I for one would run for the hills,
if a provider I havent been seeing
on a regular basis for a long time
ever offered BB. Just not worth the risk
and I have seen a couple of providers
2-3x a month for over a year at times and
never even considered it with them


Morte

Reangerous business

I caught Chlymedia (SP?) once.  From a provider?  Nope.  A girlfriend in a supposedly monogamous relationship.  

Exposure to STDs is a risk you take in the hobby and any time you whip it out.  Condoms are not failsafe but they and proper hygine can reduce the risk.

A few years ago I was seeing a local provider and I was offered BB for Greek because (she claimned) I had seen her more than once. I gracefully declined, finished my businness and left. I agree a previous post that I would be safer with a provider than a bar challenge. Communication between parties and prior to the event is important in the establishment of a basic form of trust. FWIW Silver98

Reangerous business

I'd like to thank everyone for what I asked opinions it was cool to get your opinions.  I'm never leaving this hobby, but just wanted to you guys to address this issue.

Another thing, statistically speaking the more you are on the road the higher chance you are to have an accident.  So there is no way I believe a bar challenge is more risky than a provider it doesn't add up there are only seven nights in a week.  And that could be done in a day with a provider I still love all of yall be safe.