Visiting Atlanta (my old home), and I was wondering if Dawn of Dawn and Friends, Terri in Vinings, Hayley, Tyme and Corey Edwards see black gentleman.  I am looking to spend some quality time with a mature white busty provider. Any help would be appreciated.

The heart of your question is really an interesting topic.  This subject has created large flame threads across the whole cyber community—city-to-city.  Here at TER, the national boards rocks with thread after thread about this very subject.  

When I first started in the hobby, I had this romantic view of Providers.  They were the White Hats-- professional in the true sense of the word.  Rather then give you the basic “call the one you want to see and talk to her” (which is really the main idea) I’d like to share an experience.

I found the provder-cyber community on this offbeat review board.  Offbeat in that it was very intimate, well receiving of new members-more then just "we don't flame!"  There was/is a provider who participated actively on this board.  Needless to say, she has physical attraction and a rep for top-of-the-line services (A piece of cake).  I too was very active on the board and let it be known that I wanted to see the provider.  In fact, if you had followed my posts you'd probably guessed when I was going to see her--by a few days.  Well, what do you know, somebody did figure it out and a day before my session, this guy emails me, "Oh, by the way, provider x does not see men of color!"  

At that time, I existed on this soapbox  (I refuse to act any differently then anyone else) type of soapbox.  So I just went through with the appointment.   Soapboxes don't really help much when you want an experience to go a certain way.  I was nervous.  I started tripping.  There were all these conversations running through my mind.  When I get nervous a lot of times I cant' perform--this time was no different.

I arrive.  I can't perform, yet the provider was great.  She sat me down and talked.  We talked about her personal background (how she became a provider and some of her experiences) I shared parts of my life.  We talked about being smart as a hobbyist and not allowing providers to take advantage (as in don’t be a sucker).  Yeah, it was real cool!  

The main idea is that, guymandude, you should not have to ask the question that you're asking, but we both know that you do.  Sometimes if you don't, you can really spoil what would be a great session.   One thing I can tell you.  The Atlanta cyber community does not put up with racist provider.  It's all good dudeman.  Do what is comfortable for you.  You'll find that most of the providers in Atlanta are there with an open ear and open hearts (for the correct price).  

Personally, this experience I've written about is one of three, which encouraged me to volunteer as moderator.  Today, being the experienced hobbyist that I am , I would just call-up the provider.  Communication is so important (who wants to be with a provider who doesn't want to be with them).

The provider I've written about--who treated me so nice and professionally.  I went back to her about a year later.  She remembered me we continued our conversation and I had a great session.  In full performance I might add.  BTW, she is one of the providers that you listed in your question!

Joey



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