Anyone need another regular?  Mature, non-shopper who is more about continuing relationship than one afternoon trysts.

Last time I made such a comment as this, it got ugly.  So, to Ballhawk, PLEASE step back and think a minute.  You did post with an alias so how are the ladies to know you are not LE or some pyscho?  How are they to contact you?  And lastly, if you are in fact looking for an ongoing relationshp, would you really want to develop that with a lady that responds to such a vague post?

Good job! You were actually nice.

I see two possibilites:

1. The OP thought a provider might reply to this thread and then screen him as usual after making contact.

2. The question was rhetorical, just taking the temperature of the general provider community mindset and its appetite, or lack there of, for guys like him.

In fact if the OP was intending number 2 above an alias would actually be necessary to ensure honest response.

As the pleasant, constructive critisism advice indicated, one cannot private message you and not all of us gals wish to reply publically.  If we (I) reply with an alias then you cannot private message us/me either.

Also one might wonder why you don't check the ads and chose who appeals to you to find a new or another ATF?  If you're only interest is the public responders you can watch this forum daily to see who those gals are.

Personally I believe some of the best (M and F) fly below the radar.  

Happy hunting.  

what provider wouldn't want a regular?!   if this was a dating board, you might be on the right track, though I doubt such a post would generate interest.  

As for asking a provider of any service if they want regular business, duh....

you might try sugardaddy.com, I think TER is for serious hobbiers who like a little variety

have had similar thoughts myself.  As an aging hobbyist, going from one ad to the next is quite unappealing and often disappointing.  Finding someone with whom a real connection could be made would make time spent much more enjoyable for both.  Feel for Ballhawk as I too would like to have the same arrangement he is seeking

I will sleep so much better knowing you approve of my post.

If that is your desire, seriously, more power to you.  Long ago, when I was UTR hobbying, I was very fortunate to have found someone like you seem to want.  She moved away, but I still miss our time together  For me, on the postive, it resulted in my taking a more active approach to the hobby and I have met some fantastic ladies.  The irony is that until I started doing hobby research, it never dawned on me that she was UTR as well.  

Her ads and reviews will give you an idea of the superficial and her posts will give you an indication of her personality. And offering to meet for coffee/drink is also an acceptable way of getting to know her.  If you happen to find a lady that strikes your interest for such a relationship - see her and if expectations live up to what you hoped, then ask her about LTR or regular situation.  (IMO, I should also add that many ladies get jacked around by guys saying they want a LTR and then never invest in compensating her for non-play time so if you are serious, pay for the getting to know her time.)  I can't think of many ladies that would not welcome such a conversation - just bear in mind that you stress you are not seeking some long term monogamous committment as that is an entirely different topic.

Good luck, I hope you and Ballhawk find what you are seeking.

Thanks.  UTR types are hard to find

I agree.  PM me