Is there such a thing as client loyality with providers? I know there is provider loyality with clients. Is it a good or bad thing? Thanks for you all's input.

I think there is definately client loyalty with providers.  I know if I was treated very good by a provider and she was available when I had time then I would definately see her again and again.  Loyalty allows for more fun by means of you both know each othere and there is a good rapore built up in there is also a friendship as well.  The more you see her the better it gets!!  If a GFE is wanted then why not start there with the loyalty....  My last thought is you have hobbyists who are not attached and the loyalty is the closest way to feel they have a special person they can spend some meaningful time with and feel appreciated....  

Just my .02cents.

MonsterJazz

I am of the opinion that most of my clients like variety. A few of the "perks"  that I extend may be considered client loyalty.
I will guarantee a client with another provider if I am confident in his behavior and dependabilty. ~Thus making it easier for him to get into see the providers that screen very seriously~     I also offer 'frequent' clients specials of their own.  Just my 2 cents....   kisses Candace

I would much rather have loyalty both ways,  but seems that when I get to feel comfortable or really like her, something always happens. Also I get the feeling that most if not all providers want to keep a wall up, is this the norm? And if so please explain.

I like a little change, and I sample around, but when I find one I am comfotable with, I would like to be ATF/ATF and stay for a while, repeat perks are alway nice, and I return the perks.  I know it is supposed to be all about the $$, but there can be room for friendship and caring.

Hell, just an ol fool talking. Could I be in the wrong game? No time to sit in smokey bars all hours of the night hoping to find a jewel,  and I do not like doing laundry at the laundrymat and they are too busy at the grocery store(grin). I think lighting would strike if I were to go to church, so I love you beautifull ladies here.

I try to bring a small gift when I come, flowers are usually good and sometimes wine or candy. I just feel a need to do that. It is part of my mothers influence on a true southern guy who grew up in rural Va.  Yep, a sentimental ol fool that does not know to turn the other way when the bat comes at his face.

Whoa now,  you know who I am addressing, both times I was so rushed to get to see you that I did not bring the flowers, but when we have that lunch, I will bring you a dozen roses.

Another subject, is is appriciated when a client brings flowers or a small gift, or is it just lip service and the want for more.  I KNOW some have liked them, some not sure all, Ladies, do you like for gentlemen to bring flowers, or is it too visible or too uncomfortable for you?

Thanks to all for allowing me to be a part of this TER family, I have met some wonderfull people here and hope to meet more.  Jimmy

I have couple of providers I see regularly and I find it very enjoyable. Then there is the ever elusive trust factor, once the trust there, the experience takes on a different meaning.

Occassionally I also wander and every time I have done it, the experiencedoesn't measure up. Must be the trust and comfort factor.

I would say we have become pretty good friends.

Don't know whether I would classify this as loyalty because loylaty is different friendship. With friendship all are equal with loyalty, one is always loyal to another regardless and doesn't grow over the long term.

Just my 02¢

what exactly would be the meaning of this

I think the loyalty thing is great! Of course, if a guy wants variety that is his choice, but I prefer a provider I know is going to treat me right and don't have to through the whole learning curve again. I have been seeing the same provider now for over two years and would be hard pressed to understand what another later would give me that I am not already getting (no offense to the fine ladies out there).