While the physical part of visiting a provider is very nice, I find I am enjoying the time spent talking and cuddling too.  Does this mean i am getting old or just long to be treated like I am special to someone (even if it is an act)?

Most importantly, I think it just means you're human. Everyone should have someone in their life who treats them with love and affection. (Even if it is an act) Nothing wrong with that
For me, that's what makes life worth living. I don't think that traffic, work and the numerous responsibilities we all have on a daily basis would be worth it if we didn't have a shoulder to lean on, at least on occasion.

Everyone has their own taste and what they are looking for. I am with you I enjoy the talking, cuddling, and companionship part of it. Everything else is just a bonus. Just like some guys they enjoy the physical part more. It all just depends on what the guy is seeking in his life at the moment old or young.

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I don't know how much of that is about getting old, I've always been one to seek out some kind of connection - more than just physical.  And yes, the practical in me says it may be (and likely is) an act, nonetheless it still is something I like.  Think of the doctor analogy...  Some people when they go see their doctor will appreciate one who has a good bedside manner and makes small talk and gets to know them well while others just want to get their treatment (hehe - treatment) and be on their way.  One way isn't any better than the other, it's all about getting the experience you want to have.  So we seek out the provider that fits our needs.

As long as we are always respectful of each other's boundaries I believe it's all in good fun.  Some guys want GFE, some want PSE, some want FBSM, some want a lady to role play Jane to their Tarzan (LOL - hey that's an idea...).     To me it's all about fulfilling a need (obviously) and being spoiled for a short period of time.  We see our ladies to be treated special - whatever that means to each of us.  That's why it's awesome to have ladies of all shapes, colors, sizes, ethnicities, proclivities, and specialties to choose from to spend our time with.  We are lucky to live in a city with such a wonderful buffet of options to choose from.  

A small cautionary note...  I will say that depending on your experience level and tolerance for this "lifestyle" it is good to always keep emotions in check and everything within set limits.  Share as much as you are both comfortable with, but always respect each other's personal boundaries.  If you don't - you're likely to be posting a  "help, I've fallen for a provider and can't get up!" thread.  As much of a fan I am of finding a regular girl who treats you very well, I also think it's good to mix it up once in a while and see someone new just to keep things in perspective and prevent you from becoming overly attached.  Believe me, it can happen to the best of us.  

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