Ladies and gents, people have been fucking bareback for thousands of years.  It's just not that big of a deal. (Well, unless it's 1700 and you've got syphilis, but I digress.) In my experience, safe sex is a bit more prevalent in the hobby than in the civvie world but if a couple of adults want to forego that safety measure then that's none of my beeswax.  What really cracks me up though are the poor guys who are unable to say "no", enjoy a minute or so of sweaty condom-free pleasure, and then proceed to worry themselves sick for weeks as they wait for their expensive tests to come in, no doubt comparing their private areas with STD pics on WebMD several times a day.  "It's her fault!  She MADE me fuck without a condom!" they cry angrily after the tests comes back negative and they realize that all the sleepless nights and panic attacks were for nothing.  As far as I'm concerned that's the #1 argument against BBFS: all the damn worry that comes along with it. Even more so if you are married. Who needs it?