Um, that's part of it. The guys have the cash, the girls want the cash. The guys get to choose. I hope you don't think that the guy will pay you a fucking fee for cancelling. That would be a joke. He'd probably just go to the other girl who he stood you up for. That's the way it goes. The customer is always right, even in this hobby.

but NCNS is inexcusable,on the part of either client or provider, especially in this day of smart phones, I Pads etc.

Anyone who either makes several hundred dollars an hour or who can afford to pay a woman that kind of money can certainly afford to buy a phone that actually works, and learn how to use it if an emergency comes up.

I have cancelled many appointments over the years, but I have never, not once, ever been guilty of NCNS and I ALWAYS give notice of a cancellation the moment I know I won't be able to make an appointment. It's not rocket science, it's common courtesy.

The customer is NOT always right,
But
They ARE always the customer.  

The point is a girl may make concessions or may offer a discount after a bad session. Not because the customer was right, hell we are probably wrong more than right, the session could have been all our fault, but they do it because they value us as customers.  

A cancellation fee can be applied if a girl wants, it's her business and her option. There are both good and bad possibilities. She may choose to impose it or could let it pass...again up to her. Just like its up to us to decide whom we see and spend our money with.  The controversy is a non-issue in my opinion.

Well said gagambler.

Well said, Larry. The customer is indeed NOT always right in this business. There's a big difference in someone being right and being incredibly inconsiderate and rude

the past 6 months (one of them had the nerve to come back with an attitude the next day when I responded to her newsletter that I couldn't believe she had time to send the newsletter out but couldn't take 10 seconds to send me a 'Sorry something came up not available text'; she even had the nerve to text me next time she was coming to the area, like I'd be dumb enough to sign up for disappointment again!), I have never pulled one myself.  I've had several cancellations for legit reasons by both the provider & me, but always with notice & no hard feelings, but I agree, a NC/NS is inexcusable.

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You are being too nice. I would ha e told him to go Fuck himself.

heading to the hospital or dead he or she can pick up the phone. NCNSs are incredibly rude.

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