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somebodyelse_32 31 Reviews 1077 reads
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First, a song lyric, quoted with great jealousy, "I'll be your sixty minute man..."

Okay, so the "problem" is you can stay hard, keep going, and "you love her a long time".  And to think I've had to work up some passable skills with hands and mouth just to fill the other 58 minutes and make it worth the lady's while for something other than the $ involved to see me.  

Okay, now that I've teased, and for disclosure purposes to the board Binatl and I have swapped many a PM, he knows he's my hero and that I think the ladies he sees are the best of the best, I just have to summarize it to  the time management issue of which he speaks, and also some candid disclosure early in an appointment because I know you're seeing terrific ladies and they want you to enjoy yourself all the way.  But if you end up with the same issue on a 90 minute the same as with a 60 minute appointment, then brotha, that's back on you.  Book 90, think and act as if you booked 60, finish in 75, and enjoy the afterglow.



Binatl1340 reads

OK - I have a "problem" that I want to ask about.  I sometimes have trouble reaching climax in an hour session.  It is great while in the act and it can generally allow some fun activity where I don't have to be concerned about PE.  But in order to climax, I really have to focus and work for 10-15 minutes.  It almost never happens covered due to the reduced sensitivity.  This often causes the lady I am with to also have to work really hard and have great patience.  Thankfully, there are many wonderful women who do and are troopers.  But If I don't clock watch, I get worried sometimes that I'm going to run out of time and have to take a cold shower  (it has happened 3 times) which obviously can be very frustrating.

So ladies, roughly how often does this happen in an hour session, even with your best efforts?

Hobbyists, anyone have this issue and overcome it (so to speak) :-)

-Binatl

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GennaDimera1021 reads

session then?  That way you don't have to be worried about watching the clock, which could actually be contributing to your problem.  I love 90-minute sessions because both parties are more relaxed and don't feel rushed.

Good luck!
~Genna

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Binatl2778 reads

Thanks Genna.  More time has helped but there is always some time limit.  I seem to end up in the same predicament after 90 min or 2 hrs.  

Some ladies are very sensitive to this and focus along with me without me saying a thing.  Others respond very well with me when I mention the time.  But I've also had to leave because time expired and that was it.  

I've found that time management by both parties is critical no matter how much of it there is.

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GaGambler1596 reads

but I don't really consider it a problem. lol

One suggestion I might make if a condom's reduced sensitivity is the problem, would be the good old fashioned hand job. I have to confess that I often cannot finish inside of a condom, especially if I am having sex more than once a day, the increased friction of a HJ does the trick almost every time. If you see time is runnng out and you really want to finish, that's the way to virtually assure a finish. Besides many, if not most women get sore after 30-40 minutes of intercourse, this might make you a "less difficult" client for many.

Another confession, I often fake orgasms, or at least take breaks after 15-20 minutes of intercourse. You don't need much recharge time for a second, third or fourth round if you aren't actually cumming every time.  Of course this requires much more than an hour session, but again I don't really see this as a problem lol

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Binatl2006 reads

GaGambler - HJ/BBBJ finish is almost always a must... plus lots of the non-sticky lube.  The spray sticky stuff makes things worse.  Your idea of "faking" it is awesome.  I think advisor2008 has described "dry orgasms" that aren't fake but are repeatable.  I will have to figure out what my "O" face looks like though so I can recreate it :-)  

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anonymousfun2103 reads

Urologist can help you with the issue very successfully. It may not be a sensitivity issue after all, there many causes. After fighting this problem for couple of years, I started seeing a Urologist recently and he is helping. I am not fully recovered but on my way, it has been only 3 weeks since I seen him.

I did try some of the readily available and advertised remedies none worked. Then I started to think, and said to myself, I am spending $100's of dollars on this crap trying this and that, said to myself, if I go see a Urologist my insurance will cover and said, you are a grown man, go see a doctor who can help!

Do it.

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dubbltrubbl1611 reads

It changed my life.  Testosterone therapy made all the difference.  I feel whole again.  I know for a fact that I can deliver at least once every time, sometimes twice a day compared to once a week!

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GaGambler1140 reads

A man well over fifty who drinks like a fish, is not going to be able to cum four or five times a day like a could a few short years ago.

I will agree that if the problem gets to the point where you can't deliver at least once a day, a professional is probably in order, but my only problem would be unrealistic expectations. lol

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Binatl892 reads


Dubble and Anonfun - good advice. I think I will go to a specialist to check the hoses and fluid levels... Gotta make sure it isn't a mechanical problem.

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It changed my life.  Testosterone therapy made all the difference.  I feel whole again.  I know for a fact that I can deliver at least once every time, sometimes twice a day compared to once a week!

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DWW1271 reads

Yes - there are potential adverse effects (short and long term) from testosterone replacement therapy the same way that there are risks with hormone replacement therapy for women.  Ask about the risks so that you understand them and make a decision that is right for you.

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bobinga1949 reads

If lost sensitivity from the cover is part of your problem, you might try using a female condom.  I have found that they feel more natural and nearly like BB.

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bangerzandbizkitz1286 reads

having sex for 1 year.

Problem solved.

Next question please.

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somebodyelse_321078 reads

First, a song lyric, quoted with great jealousy, "I'll be your sixty minute man..."

Okay, so the "problem" is you can stay hard, keep going, and "you love her a long time".  And to think I've had to work up some passable skills with hands and mouth just to fill the other 58 minutes and make it worth the lady's while for something other than the $ involved to see me.  

Okay, now that I've teased, and for disclosure purposes to the board Binatl and I have swapped many a PM, he knows he's my hero and that I think the ladies he sees are the best of the best, I just have to summarize it to  the time management issue of which he speaks, and also some candid disclosure early in an appointment because I know you're seeing terrific ladies and they want you to enjoy yourself all the way.  But if you end up with the same issue on a 90 minute the same as with a 60 minute appointment, then brotha, that's back on you.  Book 90, think and act as if you booked 60, finish in 75, and enjoy the afterglow.



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