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players2 9 Reviews 594 reads
posted
1 / 19

reasonable. Your safety is most important.If they don't want to follow your rules-tell them good luck. I don't want to see someone who is loose on references or screening.

ValuedCustomer 401 reads
posted
2 / 19

I think it is perfectly legit to ask for a name and a place of employment.  In my specific case, it will take you about a minute on google to figure out that I am a legit client. Might take another two minutes for you to get a picture of me....  In 10 minutes you could probably figure out what high school I went to - where I worked twenty years ago and possibly some idea of what my annual income is...  

Conversely - from my standpoint - you having that information is essentially meaningless even if LE or somebody else gets a hold of it precisely because it is so easy to get a hold of.    Unless, of course, you have a copy of my ID which gets a little tougher to explain...so I am not going to give you that

AvaRaleigh See my TER Reviews 456 reads
posted
3 / 19

Because every single person without references who has contacted me has given me insufficent information to feel safe, or has given me a hard time about it. Safety is so important, don't compromise on it! What you ask is totally reasonable.

Khori See my TER Reviews 258 reads
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4 / 19


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Shaft1 130 Reviews 332 reads
posted
5 / 19

Ladies,

I know we guys sometimes give you grief, but I'm a strong proponent of you doing whatever you think is necessary to give you piece of mind and a sense of comfort in your verification process.

HarryWacker 343 reads
posted
6 / 19

Time for an update of her profile?

Harry

Logostuck 31 Reviews 199 reads
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7 / 19


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anonymus8T27bILB54 40 Reviews 208 reads
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8 / 19


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AvaRaleigh See my TER Reviews 364 reads
posted
9 / 19

I am in theory, I have just yet to see one because they refuse to give me the info I ask for.

LtNeilBriggs 421 reads
posted
10 / 19

Why would a top notch lady like yourself spend time screening a newbie? $1000 an hour and you mess with newbies?

electr0nsrealm 45 Reviews 437 reads
posted
11 / 19

I am very grateful to ladies that see newbies at all.  If the roles were reversed I'm not sure I would (for my safety and security).  So, ask whatever you want - as far as I'm concerned it's a valuable service.  And if you ask guys what they are comfortable giving I'm sure the stock answer is "nothing".

A few years ago when I moved back to Atlanta I was in a position where my referrals had "expired".  I had a couple of atf's in my previous city but I had taken a couple of years off from the hobby.  So this old wardog was somehow considered a "newbie".  Imagine that.

I stumbled upon a redheaded lady with a heart of gold who saw something good in my soul (or crazy in my brain - not sure which) and took me under her wing.  Man you should see those wings...  Hehe.  But I digress.  This kind lady took me by the hand and led me into the provider promised land.  I'll never forget her kindness.  For decorum's sake I won't mention her name.  But her initials are GT.  And she has a sex swing. :-)  I'm pretty sure she has regretted that decision ever since.  But I, ladies and gents stand before you today due to the kindness of strangers.  Or one particular stranger.  With a very kind heart.  

If I recall, she asked for my license and a business card.  Was I comfortable with it?  Not particularly, but I understand how the game is played.  Plus GT was so sweet she helped me get over my knuckleheadedness.  Now you know the rest of the story...

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1192967 45 Reviews 315 reads
posted
12 / 19
electr0nsrealm 45 Reviews 310 reads
posted
14 / 19

I don't want anyone flaming such a well loved and respected lady for letting riff-raff like me into the party.  :-)

I don't know how you broke the code...  I thought I made my clues sufficiently vague.  Once again it seems I have understimated my audience.

On a personal philosophical note - Karma plays an important role in my version of the universe.  No matter how successful or popular we become it is always a good idea to remember those special people that lent us a hand along the way. That applies to all human beings - providers and clients alike.  It's a good code to live by.
 
Posted By: xyz23
...And you are correct GT is a top notch lady.

LtNeilBriggs 308 reads
posted
15 / 19

And I'd never dream of jumping into the $1600 er $1000 an hour pool. Do many newbies do that?

Chuck6969 326 reads
posted
16 / 19

Once upon a time, you kept it in check (and had a decent rep) but your threatening PMs have been passed around overr the years, and now the brand newbs r the only ones you can try to control with the "sweetheart act".    
Wise choice,but now one of the clueless newbs  reveals how indiscriminant  you are and you get snotty with another girl when you camt strongarm him to change it or  
Ter to remove  it?!  
 Thas what happens when you beg them to post for you.
They dont always say what you tell them to
Noone wouldve even associated it with you, but you cant help trying to bully people.  
 


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electr0nsrealm 45 Reviews 262 reads
posted
17 / 19

What a silly, baseless rant.  Your every word is seething with hate and/or jealousy.  Any disinterested observer can easily see that fact.  And if you had credibility when you began your post you forfeited that when you discarded impartiality (and common sense, and common decency, and common courtesy).

Madam, (I call you madam as no gent cares a lick about screening procedures) I am sorry if I have offended your delicate sensibilities.  But please do try to grab hold of some perspective here before jumping off the deep end.  My post was thanking someone for a kindness done to me years ago.  Nothing more.  Please don't read anything else into it than that.

And for those delving into minutiae of things they know nothing about - I did say "if I recall" which I frequently don't do well, by the way.  Not to mention the event I was referring to was years ago.  But I do regret mentioning anything about screening as 1) it was indiscreet, 2) it has diluted my thank you to a particular person, and 3) it has given a couple of folks reason to jump to conclusions that aren't correct.  And for all that I do apologize.

But if calling me a "clueless newb" makes you feel better about yourself - by all means, please do.  I am often clueless - some days more than others.  I do frequently put my foot in my mouth and apparently have done so again.  I seem to have turned a simple thank you to someone special to an outright debacle.  For that I truly apologize.  Also, the fact that the particular person I am referring to has had to spend even a minute of her valuable time addressing this silliness.

And the fact that she took the time to come on here and explain her position to knuckleheads such as yourself speaks to the depth of her character.  So, please folks - let's move along as there really is nothing to see here.  Can we now talk about something truly important - like dick size?  :-)
 
Posted By: Chuck6969
Once upon a time, you kept it in check (and had a decent rep) but your threatening PMs have been passed around overr the years, and now the brand newbs r the only ones you can try to control with the "sweetheart act".    
 Wise choice,but now one of the clueless newbs  reveals how indiscriminant  you are and you get snotty with another girl when you camt strongarm him to change it or  
 Ter to remove  it?!  
  Thas what happens when you beg them to post for you.  
 They dont always say what you tell them to  
 Noone wouldve even associated it with you, but you cant help trying to bully people.  
   
 

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wege1010 11 Reviews 241 reads
posted
18 / 19

Well said!!! You ALWAYS handle every situation with such class!!!i
I hope you NEVER change!!!

Now, as far as dick size, I plead the fifth! 🙈🙉🙊

electr0nsrealm 45 Reviews 237 reads
posted
19 / 19

No, I never mentioned anything about showing something at the door (feel free to take another look).  Please don't read things into my post that just aren't there.  It's creating unnecessary drama.  My post has caused enough anxiety (much to my consternation) without folks making stuff up about it.

And speaking of anxiety and drama - I did apologize to the good folks of the board for my faux pas in this public forum (see my previous post).  Quoting me out of context and adding info that I never put there originally isn't helpful.

I think the only thing I can do at this point is put down the keyboard and back away slowly...
;-)
 
Posted By: VIP Veronica
I don't know HOW this is getting SO convoluted-so, for the Last time.  
   
 My "Whoah" reply (as it says)-was to ALL who were posting below me (NOT just you,  and, I Know you were replying to Chuck6969-who by the way, isn't an alias-has a gold mailbox symbol...but, beside the point).  
   
 Most people, DO see new people.    
 I don't know Why you think anyone would have assumed this was about you.    
 I Read it-if someone doesn't NAME the person they are talking about-I skim right over it.  I don't sit there and try to decipher--ooh, who Could they be referring to (Obviously it must be someone delisted, ,or they would have said the Name! duh.  THAT's What I think).  Or, how many Gia's, Gianna's, Gemma's, Genna's, Gina's, etc. etc do we have?    
 I don't give a crap who it was... since he didn't or couldn't name them, to me-that was Irrelevant (and, the first thing I think of when I see GT-is Ga Tech.  Point was, if person wasn't named-I'm not even paying attention to it)  
    I wasn't Apologizing to you.  Get over yourself.  I wasn't looking for your reply of "you'll have to accept that".  I'm just clarifying my own words as they were intended.    And, I Certainly don't need either of the two lectures in your long reply (at least what was originally posted).  You're right-I stopped reading.  
   
 The reason I called it an "asskissing post" was because I just read all the ruckus below my post, last one being electrons long post about "all he wanted to do was compliment someone"....  
 So, to electronsrealm, in my "Whoah" post-WHICH WAS TO ALL REPLYING BELOW me (not just YOU)...  
 I clarified " Hey-I was replying to the screening stuff"...as in- Excuse the heck out of me for "not knowing" this was supposed to be all about someone's compliment.   I actually THOUGHT this was a thread about what is acceptable to expect people to provide/what is acceptable to provide... you know, the POINT of the thread!  
 (Damn people-seriously, grow some thicker skin.  Not everything is All About You)  
   
 *****AND, what I POSTED AT ALL for...was, because-  Hello??  Do you know How many times people try to book, and offer to show ID/Liscence, business card, etc. At the door???*****    
 Electron guy posted that that's how he got in to his first appt.  THIS IS A THREAD ABOUT SCREENING!!    I didn't want more people reading that and thinking, or expecting that is an acceptable way to be screened!!  That was what my reply was-READ IT! (THAT IS ALL!!  END OF STORY)******  
   
 I TRIED to Clarify that, but you are again missing the forest for the trees!  
 I'm not looking for your acceptance, or a condescending lecture on how to participate in the board honey, or why seeing Newbies are good, or that anyone cares who compliments you...I have no idea.  I don't think that way, so I don't even try to understand that train of thought.    
   
 All I want, is for you to stop trying to make what I said-in any way connected to you!   You are sucking my energy!  And, to not have to waste ANYMORE time on this!  Geez!  Go get laid people!  I'm going to!  Have a Great Day!

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