...That doesn't mean I don't like for providers (women) to color their hair but I want it to be a color that occurs naturally in humans. Firehouse red ( looks like the paint used on firetrucks, hydrants) isn't a hair color. Same goes for orange, blue, pink and so on.

Now to specifically answer your question the natural black hair of Asians is very attractive and difficult to color. I prefer an Asian provider have her natural color. Trying to lighten it to blond just doesn't work. My experience has been the hair color isn't attractive and it damages the hair which is noticeable. Of course I would expect less extreme color changes to be feasible and might be attractive but  I'm sticking with my preference of keep it natural.

she is Filipina then a honey blonde.

I have never understood why an asian, latino, or hispanic who with their dark hairr and beautiful skin would ever want to be any color than black. It is so naturally gorgeous and sexy on them.